Let me un-muddy the water a bit. It has nothing to do with the pressures, but everything to do with bullet weight and velocity. A light bullet does not bridge the gap between the chamber and the forcing cone enough to prevent gas blow by and hardening of the forcing cone. Compounding this, the light bullets moving at high speed hit the bottom of the cone disproportionately from the top, due to recoil and the bullets inertia. Keep your bullet weights above 158 grains, and your loads within safe limits. Preferably, use 160+ bullets (I find they like heavy bullets better, anyhow). Never, ever, ever, use 110 gr, or 125 gr, as these are NOTORIOUS for ending your guns life very, very quickly. Save those for N and L frames, those forcing cones won't ever crack, come hell or high water.