"Some wives believe all her stuff is hers. And all the husbands stuff is hers too."
Obviously you've never heard of the "50%-100% rule."
Women own 50% of the property, and 100% of the ah-hem,, little stuff we men get in trouble over. Women will take the 50% and use the 100% stuff to get the other 50%.
Luckily,, my wife & I are honest with each other. She has her stuff, and I have mine. We do not give each other any grief over what we enjoy. She is also a great "gun girl." She has guns of her own, and knows all about the ones I own. And she knows values & such. Plus,, we never hide money or such. We each have a safe,, and in each safe is our "extra" cash. If something happens to either one of us,, or even both of us,, we all know how to access the safe(s).