This isn't theology, much less deep theology, but I can think of no other place to put it.
I have been around churches of all stripes for the past 75 years. That means I have also been around clergy for the same period of time. I have observed that many Christians don't seem to relate Christianity to the real world. They seem to retreat into a rabbit hole of saccharine sweet spirituality that seems not related to others not in the same rabbit hole. They seem only to be able to live in this world, by withdrawing from it.
I do understand that Jesus said we are to be "in" this world, but not "of' this world. Not being "of" the world, means we don't derive out values and principals from the world, but from divine source. My issue is that so many Christians are good at not being "of" the world, but seem to be unable to be "in" the world. Thusly they can't relate to folks who come seeking help, respite or solace from the hard knocks of the world.
I have long believed that our faith enables us to be in the world and yet not compromise with the world. If our faith is not strong enough to support us in whatever and wherever life may take us, is it real faith? If our faith is a hot house plant that can only survive in a controlled environment, of what use is it to us or others.
The world is a difficult place, fallen and tainted by sin, but it is where God has placed up. Why do so many folks think they can only survive with their faith intact by hiding from the world?
There are several memorable pictures of Jesus in our heads. There is little Jesus meek and mild in Mary's arms. There is the dying Jesus on the cross. There is also the aggressive Jesus that confronted hypocrisy and evil. There is the Jesus that took a whip and drove the corrupt and crooked from the Temple. Why do I see so many emulating the passive Jesus and so few emulating the aggressive Jesus?