How do you handle the first Christmas (or other holiday) without a loved one? When my dad passed on several years ago I tried setting an extra place at the table. That didn't work out because folks come out of the woodwork when I'm cooking. My mom passed on earlier this year and in recent years she has given cash in cute little packages or tins. As executor of her estate I'm hoping to continue her tradition but certain banks, investment brokers and NASDAQ are spoiling the party.
This year I get to experience Christmas thru the eyes of my great-nephews. I believe in all of her 79 years my mom viewed Christmas thru the eyes of a child, I think this is key to enjoying the wonder of Christmas.
So, what do you do to move forward during the holiday season after losing a family member? Many of us have experienced a loss this year and would like to know how to honor our recently and dearly departed without an empty feeling.
My sister had a great idea. My mom is buried in a new section of a local cemetery and a little fir tree was recently planted near her headstone. Sis decorated the tree with silver and blue ribbons, bows and a skirt.
Something in my eye, can't type any more. Good night and God bless.