Ok im trying to load 102 gr for my 9mm.. i load it up and run a dummy round to make sure everything is in order. After i chamber the round seems like everything is good, go to eject and nothing comes out. Round is still in barrel. Any advice.. ive tried going longer on the oal, but the bullet is to short and spins after i crimp it. Anybody load these? Whats the oal u you use.. definatly need help lol