Today I finally found my problem. Alignment of holes was totally off, I finally took the die out and while the boolit was inside, pushed a straightened fishing hook (didn't have any needles) through the lube holes and marked the boolit, pushed it out and whatdayaknow, NOT even close to the groove, little adjustment and now I can lube with 45psi (before I needed 120psi), no heat and after 1000 boolits no major adjustments needed, well it's Florida so 85 degrees is not really considered heat.