Ok so I have read and read on expanding 9mm and have a mixed bag of answers. I have Hornady custom grade dies I use for 9mm (9x19). Yesterday I used a 38 special expander backed way out then flared the case with the standard 9mm expander die. Some say use a 38sw expander and some say order NOE. Which NOE? What size do I need? Where should my bullet size fall in-between the NOE expander plug? Some say get a Lyman M expander die. If someone could create a sticky maybe that has less posts and just the needed technical info would be great.