elm,
Thanks for the help determining your message. For your example about "little Tommy catching fish without a license." In my state, he would NOT Need a fishing license if under age 16. On the other hand, his dad, if over age 16, would be in violation. If dad was fishing without a valid license, he is in violation. Family barbeque, or not, a Violation is a violation. Comprende? Are you an LEO? Do you comply with Game Laws?
I made arrests for law violations at many alleged violators' family gatherings. Tacky or not, I did not write the laws and cannot grant amnesty, that is up to the judge. You would KNOW that if you are a lawman.
Be well, and buy a license if you are going fishing. LOL!
Adam