How big of an out building are you talking about??? have seen guys build a 100 X 100 and have very little in outlets in it,and have seen guys build 10 X 10 and have twice as much inside it. You need to think about what type equipment you are going to use in the building now and posibly in the future. Then and only then can anyone figure what you need for a load center and wire to match. I don't know what your tallents are so I can tell you what DIY you can do. You have been given some good advice to just hire the wiring done and the electrician will fix you up. Yers you can save a few bucks by possibly doing the trenching and the conduit provided the electrician will agree. Good luck with whichever way you go.
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