My Lee 356 120 TC 6 cav and 2 cav both throw .3585 or so depending on the exact alloy.
Your assumption that a 356402 "can't" be sized to .358 because they aren't that big is ridiculous.
Molds vary a lot, alloys vary a lot and you are wrong if you think that because it says "356" on the
mold somewhere it "can't" cast a .358 or even .359 boolit.
This is getting tiresome. Have fun with reloading the 9mm. I find it to be no particular problem,
and have posted how to make it work. Do whatever you want.
Bill