I use mostly a 290 gr flat nose from a group buy here years ago. I like it with 10.5 gr of a surplus powder that is similar to AA5. I get just over 900 from my Blackhawk. Recoil is very manageable, accurate too!
In the past I loaded this revolver to the gills. Recoil was bad. Hurt my wrists. I decided I didn't need all that.