Originally Posted by
GhostHawk
DCP the last time I got into this with you, you came back sounding pretty upset. So I just let it lay and walked away. You were hot under the collar or gave me that impression. And I did not want to antagonize anyone. I have not heard the story from both sides, so I can NOT judge.
But, based on my 65 years of dealing with people. Something happened between you and your daughter that stands between you. It is unresolved. (my opinion)
You may not see it, you may not agree, you may curse my name and throw darts at my picture.
But there is something causing this.
And chances are whatever it is you do not see it as having done "wrong" and she does.
ASK, ask everyone. Ask if they know why your daughter is hanging on to those hard feelings.
I'm sure from her point of view she has a reason. And I am sure you do not agree.
And until that is resolved you are probably stuck here.
Truly I am sorry. Truly I am not trying to dig, pry, or judge.
Truly I am only trying to help, and I am afraid I am not doing a very good job of it.
Sorry if my failures have caused you pain.
I will be praying that you and your daughter can find a resolution to this conflict.