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Ivantherussian03
10-17-2010, 12:30 AM
My wife's brother passed this last Wednesday. His death was unexpected and a complete surprise. He was 41 and her baby brother. He had three children. It is very hard to see the person you love the most so upset and distraught; she is staying with him at the funeral home. He is survived his mother, two sisters, a wife, and his children.
They will bury him Monday, next to his father.
it is all very sad....her family is just devastated.
i made a point to call my own sister. Whom I have not really talked with in years, and that has bothered me for some time. It felt good to speak with her. I am going to check on my estate planning so my own family will taken care of should anything expected happen.
very :sad:
WILCO
10-17-2010, 03:06 AM
Condolences extended to you and your family Ivan. Stay strong, be the rock upon which others lean.
MT Gianni
10-17-2010, 11:22 PM
Sorry to hear that. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Shoot i'm so sorry to hear that, just be the shoulder for her to cry on. You did good calling your sister reminds me i gotta call mine.
curdog
10-18-2010, 12:27 AM
My condolences. Losing a family member is a terrible thing and he was way too young. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bret4207
10-18-2010, 08:08 AM
Tough thing to go through, been there. My thoughts and prayer will be with you and your family.
Thoughts and praeyrs for ya bro.
Andy
Shooter6br
10-18-2010, 10:33 AM
After nearing dying twice( Car accident and hand infection) I always hug my wife and two sons( 21 and 24), I tell them I love them( My father was never brought up that way). I try to be kind to my fellow man. It has renewed by faith in Jesus Christ.
Eagles6
10-22-2010, 12:31 AM
Prayers for your brother in law and his loved ones.
Ivantherussian03
10-22-2010, 11:41 PM
My wife is doing better.....I wish I could say that about the kids; they dont really understand. My wife is wrapping up her brother affairs. many thanks for your thoughts and prayers.
Recluse
10-26-2010, 11:33 PM
Hang in there Ivan, and I pray you find the words to comfort your nieces and nephews.
Being an Uncle isn't always an easy job. . .
:coffee:
Ivantherussian03
10-27-2010, 09:51 AM
My wife will be home in two days. She informed me i will be fathering /mentoring these children from a distance. I am not sure how effective that will be be, but I do alot of that already.
Ivantherussian03
10-30-2010, 02:51 AM
My wife came home today. It was foggy all so no planes could land all day. I worked all day, watching the heavy fog outside. I went home.......not feeling great. I put gas in my honda, and looked up, and the fog cleared somewhat. i could see across the river. So I hopped on the Honda and shot up to the runway. I did a loop in the parking pad, and once I turned a 207 caravan dropped out the fog and landed. Just minutes before that plane showed up the fog cleared and lifted. My wife was on board, safe and sound.
Shooter6br
10-30-2010, 12:21 PM
Besides God , my wife is my strength. What i would do without her i dont know. Married 26 yrs
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