View Full Version : My mother had a stroke 4 days ago
Smoke4320
05-18-2020, 06:18 PM
I may be away for a few days here and there for mothers care/family business
She had a stroke 4 days ago. Paralyzed left side.
To make matters worse shes diabetic and type A bloodtype. 2 more strikes for bad coronavirus complications if caught
We had planned her final trip back to the homeland (Deutschland) for spring but coronavirus stopped that.
Please prayer for recovery
Many thanks
RedlegEd
05-18-2020, 06:19 PM
Prayers for her and your family.
Ed
2A-Jay
05-18-2020, 06:25 PM
Prayers Offered Up for your Mother
rdwarrior
05-18-2020, 06:29 PM
prayers and thoughts for you, your family, and especially for your mother.
Eddie17
05-18-2020, 06:30 PM
Wishing you an your family all the best!
Stay strong!
Shawlerbrook
05-18-2020, 06:44 PM
Smoke, prayers sent to you, your mom and family.
koger
05-18-2020, 06:50 PM
Prayers sent for you and your family, strokes are tough. I am a survivor of 3 in 8 hours, and am dang lucky to be alive, much less cognitive.
Praying for a complete recovery for your mother .
LUCKYDAWG13
05-18-2020, 09:06 PM
they are sent
Smoke4320
05-18-2020, 09:08 PM
Many thanks for all the prayers
Pete44mag
05-18-2020, 09:51 PM
All my prayers are with you and your Mom!
augercreek
05-19-2020, 05:27 AM
May God bless and keep her in his care. Keep us posted as she progress's.
Wayne Smith
05-19-2020, 07:39 AM
Prayers for her recovery. The MD's have basically done all they can, it's up to God now.
Smoke4320
05-19-2020, 07:45 AM
Augercreek will do. lots of issues with the corona virus. I am 3 hrs away. Can not go see her Hospital will NOT allow it. Cant get many reports from the drs as they will only call when they have time. Non covid areas are now UNDERSTAFFED. Cant get her on the phone unless a nurse will take her one and hold the phone while her trys to speak. Her speech is slurred so talking and understanding what is said is difficult.
Its all difficult to get any good info
jcren
05-19-2020, 08:16 AM
Prayers sent
USMC87
05-19-2020, 10:33 AM
We are adding you and your mother to our prayer list, May God have mercy upon all!
dverna
05-19-2020, 12:33 PM
Prayers for all!!
Chad5005
05-19-2020, 12:35 PM
Prayers sent for your mom and yourself
buckwheatpaul
05-19-2020, 01:20 PM
Father, Please be with Smoke's mother as she recovers from her stroke. Please guide her medical team and her therapists that are plotting the path to her comfort and healing. Father, with all of her medical problems please protect her from exposure to Covid19. Please help Smoke and his family know the right path to follow and keep them safe as they attend to his mother. AMEN
Please keep us informed about her and your needs....Paul
slim1836
05-19-2020, 01:30 PM
Another one sending prayers for a complete recovery.
Slim
daloper
05-19-2020, 01:44 PM
Father God. I lift up Smoke's mother to you today. Be with the doctors and give them the wisdom they need to provide treatment. Give her the healing that she currently needs. Be with Smoke as he is not allowed to see her to comfort her because of the current Covid-19 problem. Give the family strength while she is in the hospital. Protect her for this Covid-19 while she is in the hospital. I pray this in the name of your Son and our Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen
Preacher Jim
05-19-2020, 03:09 PM
Prayers for your mom and you I know you two are close.
johniv
05-19-2020, 03:17 PM
Praying, sir.
Pine Baron
05-19-2020, 03:40 PM
Prayers sent.
Smoke4320
05-19-2020, 04:13 PM
Update
They have moved mother to a physical therapy unit as of 10:30 this morning
I know nothing of stroke recovery times but it seems quick for 5 days from ICU to physical therapy
Pine Baron
05-19-2020, 06:43 PM
Thank God. That sure sounds like good news. Can you go see her yet?
popper
05-19-2020, 07:13 PM
Smoke, prayers sent to you, your mom and family. Dad's first was left side, went to rehab when stable. Recovered almost completely, talking well, walking with walker as aid. Got in a rush, then fell and broke leg. Rehab was good, had him bouncing ballons, talking, then walking. Some stuff has to be relearned.
Smoke4320
05-20-2020, 07:29 AM
No visits. Hospital will not let any visitors in
Going to try calling today
See if nurses will even take a phone to her
Pine Baron
05-20-2020, 07:59 AM
Praying she comes home soon.
Master Samwise
05-20-2020, 11:19 AM
Hey Smoke, Hope things are going better.
Just wanted to throw in for the recovery side, because I am pushing the positive outcome for you all.
Soonest activity in physical therapy will help get the best expected outcome. I'm sure other stroke survivors might back me up on this. It seems the worst outcomes I've seen were from those who tried thinking they were too independent and refused support or PT.
It's a setback, but we have to stay positive and keep moving forward. A cane or a walker, is still forward.
Oh since you mentioned it. A burner phone, like from cricket might be useful to you in this situation, if they agreed to it.
~Samwise~
Tazlaw
05-20-2020, 01:25 PM
I’ll say some prayers too. I lost my mom last year. I know how upsetting this can be. If you ever need to talk just PM me.
I'm glad to hear she's recovered enough to go into rehab . Will keep praying for recovery .
mozeppa
05-20-2020, 09:13 PM
hope and prayers are all we old folks have. more for yer mom
Hickok
05-22-2020, 08:01 AM
God's grace and care for this lady.
Blackwater
05-22-2020, 05:51 PM
May God's richest blessings be upon your Mom, and the whole family. Not being able to visit her is tough. Does she have a cell phone? Can you take her one? Or at least to the nurses and then have them take it to your Mom? Prayers up, for her and all who love her.
Smoke4320
06-02-2020, 08:51 AM
Well the physical therapy place finally let me "visit" my mother. Had her on a balcony 10-15 ft up in the air and myself and my son about 6" back from the wall.
Her speech is much improved. Probably 80 to 85% normal. They had her left hand/arm strapped to the wheelchair so that told me all I needed to know on the paralysis.
She did say she way able to slightly move her left foot in therapy so there is hope for some recovery
Blackwater
her NEW IPhone 11 mysteriously disappeared in the ambulance trip to the hospital. She has an Ipad there but says she can't hold it since left hand/arm useless
Also says too tiring to try right now. Eventually we can do facetime after we can visit and rig up a stand. Doctors/nurses too busy right now/short staffed to deal with it.
Pine Baron
06-02-2020, 08:55 AM
Thanks for the update Smoke. Sounds promising. Real glad you guys got to see her. Prayers continue.
Hang in there . With all the things going on that are it's hard on a lot of friends and family because of the restrictions on visitation . I go to a lot of nursing home and the visitation has stopped . I am praying for her and the family in these crazy times .
Conditor22
06-02-2020, 12:42 PM
sorry to hear about your mom, glad she's getting some function back. She doesn't have to be able to walk to visit Europe, but it may be a while before she (or Europe) is ready
It's a sin what happens in eldercare facilities and to our elderly. People taking advantage of them and stealing from them because most elderly don't know any better and are susceptible to smooth talkers.
Both my grandmothers and parents were in church-run facilities and many of the pretty and nice things I gave them to make their life more comfortable/enjoyable disappeared including expensive jewelry.
IF anyone has a friend or relative in an elder care facility, swap out their expensive family heirloom jewelry with comparable costume jewelry and mark anything you take them permanently and prominently.
My grandmother loved (they were the only thing comfortable) expensive sweaters, all hers kept disappearing until I wrote her name on the outside of the back collar with a permanent marker. Engrave any electronics etc.
Blackwater
06-02-2020, 04:44 PM
They're doing a lot of significant things with stroke now. May your Mom receive the best care, and God's blessings. Amen.
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