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Blackwater
05-01-2019, 03:37 PM
Sorry to be gone for so long. Had some 'puter problems, got a new one, and promptly messed that one up! But ya' can't keep a good man down ... for long at least, and I'm glad to be back. Really missed you guys, seriously.

For a sitrep, I'm prepped and ready for surgery on May 9. When my new urologist found my stage 4 prostate cancer, I was very concerned to say the least. But I made peace with my mortality back in 1969 in Da Nang Viet Nam, and nothing's changed since then except a lot of water's gone under the bridge. Still, we all want to stay here as long as possible. I'd really like to see my grandboys graduate college and maybe even get married. But that's not up to me. My days are numbered and I've been consciously aware of that for an awful long time now. I can't believe God has given my my "three score and ten" when I've given him so many opportunities to take me home! I guess he figured I wasn't "ripe" yet, and left me on the vine??? Who knows???

I was a little concerned at first with taking out the whold prostate since the after effects can often be more problematic than if the roto-rooter job is done. But with the cancer being stage 4, I really wouldn't have felt very much assurance that it'd stay gone, so ..... ya' takes what ya' can get, I guess. I've been tied to a Foley for well over a month now, and it's aggrevating, but it's really helping me keep my bladder clear, and that's a priority now. I don't get out much, but that keeps me out'a trouble, I guess.

You guys out there, take CARE of yourself!!! Get your PSA's done yearly after about age 40 or 45 or whenever your urinary activity changes, or whenever there's a strange "feeling" down there. If you don't, you could be writing your own demise down, and that's never a good thing. And if you suspect you're not getting the right treatment CHANGE YOUR DOCTOR AND DON'T WAIT LIKE I DID! It can make the difference between life and death, and may very well save you some great trials.

We only go around once, boys. Let's make it a good trip! And keep it as long as we can. There's enough variables in life to keep us busy already!

Any prayer sent my way would be earnestly appreciated. I believe in prayer, and I've seen it work. And thanks in advance.

Edward
05-01-2019, 03:47 PM
Prayers sent/Ed

Winger Ed.
05-01-2019, 04:35 PM
Wheels in the well, prayers inbound.

Boaz
05-01-2019, 05:11 PM
It's bout time . Glad to see you back !

JSnover
05-01-2019, 05:14 PM
Thanks for the update and the advice. Welcome back!

toallmy
05-01-2019, 05:18 PM
It's nice to hear from you Sr. God bless

Pine Baron
05-01-2019, 05:23 PM
Dennis, It's so good to hear from you and of course you've got my prayers brother. I was in the same boat, 5 years cancer free, guess He weren't done with me yet.

jmort
05-01-2019, 05:45 PM
God Speed
Good to hear from you
For what it is worth, you did the only sane thing
Ditto to all the above

jcren
05-01-2019, 06:26 PM
Prayers sent

RED BEAR
05-01-2019, 06:45 PM
Sorry to hear this will pray for you and yours.

DougGuy
05-01-2019, 06:48 PM
I beat cancer yet again in your absence Dennis, I know prayer works too!! Glad to see you back in print! Err.. Text! :bigsmyl2:

lightman
05-01-2019, 06:49 PM
Welcome Back! Sorry to hear of your problems but I have to respect your attitude. Prostrate problems have to be every mans secret fear, much like Breast Cancer is for Women. Good Luck with your treatment/surgery. Stay in touch with us.

Pb Burner
05-01-2019, 08:01 PM
Glad your your back! You will be in my prayers. I, and I'm sure I'm not alone, am glad God "left you on the vine". Thanks for the update and hang in there. And thank you, sir, for your past service to our country, and to us!
May the Lord be with you!

retread
05-01-2019, 08:48 PM
Glad to see you back. Will say a prayer and a praise on your recovery. God Bless!

Jay

Der Gebirgsjager
05-01-2019, 09:39 PM
I will also pray for you, Dennis.

WRideout
05-01-2019, 09:42 PM
Glad to have you back. I am praying for you, brother.

Wayne

Wayne Smith
05-02-2019, 07:42 AM
Glad to see you back, Dennis. Thanks for the update. I am praying for you and your doctors.

USMC87
05-02-2019, 07:45 AM
Welcome back Brother and know you are in our prayers.

JBinMN
05-02-2019, 11:36 AM
Welcome back!, & wishing you the Best!, in your battle!

Hickok
05-02-2019, 12:08 PM
So good to have you back and to hear of your progress. God's blessings and care for you!

modified5
05-03-2019, 11:32 AM
Blackwater, you are in my prayers.
I feel your pain. I was having minor chest pains at the beginning g if the year.
Ended up with a quad bypass.
During blood tests they also found a PSA of 70. Yep, cancer. It has metastasized to my bones. I’m going in Monday to talk to the doc, get copies of all my tests and scans and look at options.
Before 2019 I never had any kind of major illness. Crazy.
God has you in this and I pray that he heals you completely.

buckwheatpaul
05-03-2019, 08:50 PM
It's bout time . Glad to see you back !

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What Boaz says is my thoughts on this! Paul

woodbutcher
05-03-2019, 09:17 PM
:-( Cancer is an ugly old witch.Kick her backside real good.Wishing you the best for a full recovery.Prayers sent.
Leo

smoked turkey
05-03-2019, 09:36 PM
Dennis, it is good to hear from you. It is not good to hear of your situation with your prostate. This May 25 will be 3 years since mine was removed. When my PSA kept being on the high side, my surgeon said I think it is time to do a needle biopsy. I agreed. It came back positive for cancer. The Good thing with me is that I caught it early and it was 100% contained. I'll admit that there are "other" problems when you don't have your prostate any longer, but in my mind dealing with them is better than the consequences of not facing it head on. So Dennis, with the Lord on our side, we can face anything. Right? Dennis, you've absolutely got this. I'll be praying for you, the surgery team, and most of all for the great physician to come along side you and the surgeon. You will be healed and will be getting those PSA readings of "0". I think you still have fruit to bear my brother.
Stan

CastingFool
05-03-2019, 10:50 PM
Sorry to hear about your situation, Blackwater. Remember the Lord is always in control, and those who love Him and have accepted Him as their Savior have nothing to fear.

40-82 hiker
05-03-2019, 10:58 PM
Sending prayers. Keep the faith and His Grace.

Welcome back.

pcolapaddler
05-04-2019, 12:00 AM
Prayers for you and family. May the Great Physician provide healing and renewed strength.

Sent from the largest mountain range in Florida.

Pb Burner
05-14-2019, 09:21 AM
Dennis, I hope you are recovering well.
I hope you are able to come back to the forum soon.
You are still in my prayers.