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Roosters
07-22-2013, 04:42 PM
Thought some of you might enjoy this. Mod’s if this is wrong place feel free to move it.


Grandpa, some ninety plus-years, sat feebly on the patio bench. He didn't move; he just sat with his head down staring at his hands.

When I sat down beside him he didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat, I wondered if he was OK.
Finally, not really wanting to disturb him, but wanting to check on him at the same time, I asked him if he was OK.

He raised his head and looked at me and smiled. "Yes, I'm fine. Thank you for asking," he said in a clear strong voice.

"I didn't mean to disturb you, Grandpa, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK," I explained to him.

"Have you ever looked at your hands," he asked. "I mean really looked at your hands?"

I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point he was making. Grandpa smiled and related this story:

"Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled, shriveled, and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life. They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back."

* As a child my mother taught me to fold them in prayer.

* They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots.

* They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent.

* They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son.

* Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special.

* They trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse and walked my daughter down the aisle.

* They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body.

* They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw.

* And to this day, when not much of anything else of me works real well, these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.

* These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of my life.

* But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home.

threett1
07-22-2013, 05:39 PM
So good.

Bo1
07-22-2013, 05:46 PM
Nice Story..

longusmc
07-22-2013, 05:51 PM
Well said.

27judge
07-22-2013, 05:51 PM
Wow truly something of value tks ken

starnbar
07-22-2013, 06:02 PM
Amen to that.

hiram1
07-22-2013, 06:06 PM
This is what we need to show kids of today. You no put it there heads. So we don't have to have to put them in the ground before there time. So much

Circuit Rider
07-22-2013, 07:48 PM
Thanks Roosters, I needed that.

Taylor
07-22-2013, 08:21 PM
There used to be a song called "Daddy's Hand's",kinda sad it was.Grandpa's are always wise and good.I remember mine,even though he has been dead for many years now.

leeggen
07-22-2013, 08:26 PM
really awsum!Thanks for sharing this with us all.
CD in TN

No_1
07-22-2013, 08:40 PM
Sometimes we need this to help us understand what life is really about. Thanks for sharing.

gray wolf
07-22-2013, 10:27 PM
GREAT ==
It made me instantly think of Daddy Frank the guitar man.
Don't no why the song just started going through my mind when I read your story.
Hope I ain't doing the wrong thing but these are the words

"Daddy Frank (The Guitar Man)" *** Merle Haggard

Daddy Frank played the guitar and the french harp,
Sister played the ringing tambourine.
Mama couldn't hear our pretty music,
She read our lips and helped the family sing.

That little band was all a part of living,
And our only means of living at the time;
And it wasn't like no normal family combo,
Cause Daddy Frank the guitar man was blind.

Frank and mama counted on each other;
Their one and only weakness made them strong.
Mama did the driving for the family,
And Frank made a living with a song.

Home was just a camp along the highway;
A pick-up bed was where we bedded down.
Don't ever once remember going hungry,
But I remember mama cooking on the ground.

Don't remember how they got acquainted;
I can't recall just how it came to be.
There had to be some special help from someone,
And blessed be the one that let it be.

Fever caused my mama's loss of hearing.
Daddy Frank was born without his sight.
And mama needed someone she could lean on,
And I believe the guitar man was right.

Daddy Frank played the guitar and the french harp,
Sister played the ringing tambourine.
Mama couldn't hear our pretty music,
She read our lips and helped the family sing.

Bloodman14
07-23-2013, 11:18 AM
Screen got blurry, darn it.