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Superfly
05-05-2013, 04:34 AM
Wife just left to go to her moms side Who is in hospital Does not look good.


She was found on the floor in her house in cartiac arrest no puls for a very long time passed out , CPR and defib has pulse no eye movement no response in pupils one is really dialated and one is small Docs Call say she is intubated but they cant get the O2 levels up and it does not look good. She wont make it if they cant get the Levels Up. Electrolytes all messed up. Kidneys are failingand they think a blood clot let goo in her system heavy drinker smoker no food in her house Divorced A real ****ty deal.

My Wifes father came over for the weekend and they are on the way to the hospital now 5 hours away while i stay with our kids and will leave in the morn.


Give your parents a hug and a phone call you never know when it will be the last time you talk to them.


I just wish My Wife and Her mom had a better relationship when things were better


Off to try to sleep

If you can say one for my wife she will really need it.

Thank You

wch
05-05-2013, 04:53 AM
My Mom always said "Be sure that the last thing you say to someone you love is kind and thoughtful, because you never know if you'll have that chance again".
Prayers sent for you and yours.

WRideout
05-05-2013, 08:01 AM
This is a very sad situation. Even if the relationship is not good, she is still the mother, and that counts for something. Prayers sent for all of you.

Wayne

Charlie Two Tracks
05-05-2013, 09:57 AM
Sorry to hear of this Superfly. Prayers said for you and yours.

blackthorn
05-05-2013, 10:07 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

schutzen
05-05-2013, 10:09 AM
We feel for you and pray for you. It's a tough situation, but we all have to go though it.

Superfly
05-05-2013, 12:59 PM
It is done family Choose to take her off life support.

41 mag fan
05-05-2013, 01:08 PM
My Mom always said "Be sure that the last thing you say to someone you love is kind and thoughtful, because you never know if you'll have that chance again".
Prayers sent for you and yours.

You're mother was a very smart woman. Those words have a lot of depth and meaning.


It is done family Choose to take her off life support.

My condolences to your family.

runfiverun
05-05-2013, 05:29 PM
Jamie.
i'm sure you still have my phone number, if you need to call me.
if you don't have it still and want it p.m. me.

popper
05-05-2013, 06:00 PM
My condolences to your family. Went through that couple years ago, MIL passed while watching TV on my sofa. It's hard but you will get through it.

JeffinNZ
05-05-2013, 06:08 PM
Terrbile news. Stay strong.

DLCTEX
05-05-2013, 07:43 PM
Prayers sent for all concerned.

daniel lawecki
05-05-2013, 07:57 PM
Prayers send to your family in tough times. Stay strong your kids will need you and your wife.

292
05-05-2013, 08:13 PM
Prayers lifted up for you and your family.

gbrown
05-05-2013, 09:32 PM
Very sorry for your family's loss. Prayers extended for the family. Don't let regrets lead to guilt. What happened, happened. No one is to blame. We never know when the grim reaper will show up. There is no personal defense loads for that one. Been thru it with family and friends. Very sad, but part of life. I have too many memories that haunt me when I am doing things that I know those people loved to do. I choose to celebrate their memories, knowing that they would be right there with me, if things were different.

Superfly
05-05-2013, 09:35 PM
Arggh

smokemjoe
05-05-2013, 09:46 PM
I pray for yous

canyon-ghost
05-05-2013, 10:08 PM
Sorry Jamie, will pray for you and the wife. We're all here for you.

Wayne Smith
05-06-2013, 07:37 AM
Praying for your entire family, Jamie. She was the kid's grandmother, too. Your wife will have a difficult time grieving a very mixed, love/hate relationship. Stand by her and be patient.

kbstenberg
05-06-2013, 08:28 AM
Jamie I am an hour away. If you need something give me a PM with your number. I will come if needed. Kevin

Dean D.
05-06-2013, 09:57 AM
Jaime, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers .

Errokk
05-06-2013, 09:59 AM
So sorry to hear Jaime... Y'all have my best wishes and prayers..!

Superfly
05-07-2013, 12:41 PM
Funeral is a 2 30 thursday. At nelson funeral home in clouqet mn.


So far all is good.








Some one take me shooting please I am going out of my mind With waiting.

TheCelt
05-07-2013, 04:45 PM
Prayers offered up for you and your family