Cant get into the chat any more

[Captain_Howdy]

since all the java stuff happened I cant get into the chat any more. I click it and then get a warning about installing activex controls, I then choose to install it...after that the computer tells me that since the software is not signed it will not be installed. I tried using run arounds but nothing works.

[runfiverun]

i sometimes have to allow active-x controls from this sight to get in.
i can't figure out how to allow pop-ups' in chat though so i can see links and such.

[Captain_Howdy]

I went into my security settings and enabled all the activex controls through the user prompt...gonna try an reinstal java and see if that helps