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Hardcast416taylor
04-07-2011, 12:39 AM
I lost my best friend Sunday night. My son ended his own life after fighting some demon of his own for some time. It isn`t supposed to be this way I have always been told, your children preceeding you in death. I am hurting terribly right now, my old Frau is hurting equally as bad. I can only hope my son has found his peace. Rest easy Dan.Robert

timbuck
04-07-2011, 01:17 AM
I am very sorry to hear this. My prayers are with your son, wife and you.

Bret4207
04-07-2011, 07:58 AM
Good Lord! I'm so sorry for your loss. You're right, it isn't supposed to be like this. Please try to take some comfort in knowing that whatever pain he was in is ended. You, the Mrs. and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Hang in there friend.

Pepe Ray
04-07-2011, 08:34 AM
Robert;
No one can feel your pain but you and the Lord.
The sadness I feel for you makes me want to put my arms around you and share a good cry. The miles wont let me do this but Jesus can, any where you are.
Pepe Ray

Dennis Eugene
04-07-2011, 08:40 AM
Oh I'm so sorry,May your son rest in peace and may you and yours find some small comfort in the knowledge that he is now with God and his troubles ended. Dennis

WILCO
04-07-2011, 08:54 AM
Sorry to hear of this Robert. Stay strong, keep moving forward. My condolences to you and your family.

dragonrider
04-07-2011, 08:58 AM
Robert I am so sorry for your loss,

BABore
04-07-2011, 09:00 AM
Real sorry to hear about this Bob. You and the wife take care and give me a shout if you need anything.

mroliver77
04-07-2011, 09:19 AM
Robert,
I know the pain of losing a child. There is nothing I can say but that you have friends that care. If you ever need to talk, use me.
Jay

45nut
04-07-2011, 10:55 AM
Dang,, that is terrible news. I am so sorry for your loss.

obssd1958
04-07-2011, 11:17 AM
Robert,
I have no words - I weep with you for your loss...





Don

shdwlkr
04-07-2011, 11:52 AM
I am sorry to hear of you troubles, I buried my best friend on my 42nd birthday we were just days apart in age I can still see the look on his dad's and his uncle's face when that casket went into the ground. I had buried my wife in that same cemetery not 30 feet from my buddy. It was my birthday present that year to bury him, he died from health complications.
I still miss them both and many others that have died since.
I pray that you and your family find the peace you seek and that the Lord comforts you in your time of need.

No_1
04-07-2011, 12:03 PM
This is the saddest of news Robert. May God be with you and yours during this tough time. If you need anything send a pm.

Robert

Murphy
04-07-2011, 12:57 PM
I am saddened to hear of your loss Robert. Aside from letting you know you have many shoulders here to lean on anytime of the day or night, there are no words I can think of that could possibly ease your pain.

God Bless,

Murphy

Heavy lead
04-07-2011, 01:11 PM
Very sorry and sad to hear Robert. May he rest in peace.

LUCKYDAWG13
04-07-2011, 01:15 PM
im so sorry for you loss

Uncle R.
04-07-2011, 01:33 PM
Such heartache is hard to even imagine. My deepest sympathy to you and your wife. I fear that words cannot help but I pray the Almighty will ease your pain.

Doc Highwall
04-07-2011, 01:44 PM
Sorry to hear that I don't know what to say.

Bad Water Bill
04-07-2011, 03:04 PM
Hardcast416taylor

My daughter did the same thing in December. I can only say stay strong, shed many tears and remember all of the good times. You have one of the greatest families here to help you thru this time. I know I can say contact any of us at any time and we will be there.

I am sure they are in a much better place with their demons gone and awaiting us when our time comes.

jmsj
04-07-2011, 03:58 PM
Robert,
I do not know the words to convey my sorrow for you and your family.
As a father myself, I can only offer you my deepest condolences. I have had family members and friends do "battle with their demons", some have won but some have lost.
I am sure he is safe w/ God now.
My family will pray for you and your family. Let yourself grieve but stay strong.
jmsj

bensonwe
04-07-2011, 06:25 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that. May god bless you and your family. May he hold you tight in his arms in this time of need.

waksupi
04-07-2011, 08:36 PM
Robert, I never really know what to say to a person when they have a loss, and I really don't in this situation. My sympathies to you.

Dean D.
04-07-2011, 08:48 PM
Robert, I just read this and words cannot express the shock and sorrow. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless

Dutch4122
04-07-2011, 08:51 PM
Bob-

As I've mentioned in our phone conversations this week you and your family are in our prayers. My wife sends her deepest sympathy; and wanted me to tell you that if you and your wife need anything just call us.

Dan is, of course, in our prayers also. Remember to stay close with the Lord and seek his comfort during this time.

Take care of yourself and God Bless You and your family.

Tazman1602
04-07-2011, 09:18 PM
Robert so sorry to hear that, our prayers are with you and your wife.

My wife and I have had more suicide scares with our daughter than I care to mention. I almost feel your pain, to say I did would make me a hypocrite.

Art

JeffinNZ
04-07-2011, 11:35 PM
That is just awful. I don't know what else to say. My heart is heavy for your loss and I didn't even know your son. Stay strong.

Buddy
04-08-2011, 01:01 AM
I pray for you brother. I've been thru this twice with a 13yr old son and 3yr old grandson. My wife showed me a passage in the Bible that says "God does not take children from their parents but he surely does provide a place in heaven for them." I'm truely sorry to here of your loss, the Lord will help you.

AZ-JIM
04-08-2011, 01:20 AM
After losing my dad last Saturday, my best friend as well I know he is in a better place. Surely your son is too. My sincere condolances to you, your wife, and family.

az-jim

firefly1957
04-08-2011, 10:28 AM
My prayers for you and your family Robert.

357maximum
04-08-2011, 03:08 PM
Bob, I cannot even begin to imagine that pain but I will say you have many shoulders here if you need them. Thoughts and Prayers for you and yours and if you need anything at all let me know, Mike

MT Gianni
04-08-2011, 04:15 PM
Sorry to hear that. I can only imagine your pain.

swheeler
04-09-2011, 11:48 AM
Robert may the Lord make you strong enough to accept this trajedy, God bless you. Scott

Dframe
04-09-2011, 01:10 PM
So sorry to hear of your loss.

Geraldo
04-09-2011, 05:09 PM
Robert, you , your wife, and Dan will be in my prayers.

cowboy
04-09-2011, 08:32 PM
Robert:
I am so sorry for your loss, and cannot begin to imagine the sorrow you and your wife are experiencing. We are remembering you in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul O', "cowboy"

Hardcast416taylor
04-09-2011, 10:50 PM
Final services were this a.m. A full uniformed Marine detail conducted the graveside service. A 21 gun salute was fired by the V.F.W. honor team. The marine E - 5 that presented the flag to me resembled my son, at least in my old eyes, that I called him "son". My son made E - 5 Sargent during his service time. There are over 50 notations on his facebook page from other Marines that served with him in different postings around the world. I want to thank all the site readers for their comments, PM`s, phone calls and all the wishes of a great group of people. Thank You.Robert

gon2shoot
04-10-2011, 05:11 PM
Words cannot express the emotion, may god comfort you.

ricksplace
04-10-2011, 07:18 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss.

Shuz
04-11-2011, 10:49 AM
Robert, words cannot express how I feel. You and your family will be in my prayers.