I was lucky....one time 50 years next year. I think my success there was due to marrying a rancher's daughter. They had only enough money to live, so she was used to being frugal and low maintenance....Heck she was better with my money than I was.....still is....so I deliver the whole paycheck without a care in the world. Trust is a wonderful thing ..... and it goes both ways. There are some really good girls out there.....find one to spend your waning years with if you want real happiness....and be what you want her to be.