Yep, that's what happens on a forum like this...On the positive side, there are lots of things to be discovered and/or learned, but not just for you, but for everyone else reading this.
I have a S&W 625JM with the same issues. To handload cast boolit ammo that will reliably chamber moon clips full of ammo, I have to use R+P brass with boolits that are sized to .4515 (I honed out a sizer just specially for this application). I have thought about having the cylinder reamed, but I have another issue, that my moon clips work so much better with R+P brass and Not so much with some other brands, so I'd have to sort brass for that reason...or buy other Moon clips.