I would put acts as more important than feelings. Feelings still matter and I think are still possibly sinful.
If we have sinful feelings we should work to get rid of them.
Words are tricky when trying to describe feelings. Lust, is it just a strong desire or something more and worse.
Hate, is it just a strong dislike or something more and worse.
I don't think desire or dislike are sins but I believe that lust and hate are sins and hate and lust can be taught and they can be untaught.
Others here will tell you that all sins are equal, I will tell you that I don't believe that is true and I believe evil thoughts are not as bad as evil deeds.
Someone might come and quote scripture to correct me but I take scripture with a grain of salt.
Tim