G'day bmiller.
Mate, you have discovered what Aussie shooters have found out years ago when loading any lead bullet. That is to flare,bell the case mouth until at least 2mm of the bullet base will sit in the case at the seating die station on the press.
Everyone that I teach to reload is scared to flare the case mouth too much cause they are scared of splitting cases. I always ask if they want nice accurate ammo or nice cases, but with leaded barrel and poor accuracy.
When loading with a new bullet or different shape I always load up a dummy round and them pull it to check the bullet has still got full coating.
I load 38 special with 135gr wadcutters that are coated with HI_TEK. these have a heavy crimp. Even these bullets when pulled still have full coating.
I only use Dillon presses (550B for 9mm, 357Sig, 38 Super, 40S&W, 38 Special 357Mag. and Square deal B for the 45ACP) but most are fitted with Lee dies.
Outstanding effort there, Mate. well done.