AK Soldier,
Several things:
1. The suggestion about Bullplate is spot-on. ALL of Dan's products are top-shelf, as is Dan and his entire family.
2. In lieu of Lee Liquid Alox, check out White Label Lubes' link at the bottom of this page (Lars Stuff) and order a small bottle of Xlox. Same stuff, better price and you're helping support a fellow vet.
3. Loading that .45 ACP 2281R boolit requires some careful OAL. One of the best authorities on this entire forum for loading and seating that particular boolit is 35Remington. In addition, he is a walking, living, breathing encyclopedia on the .45 ACP round.
There was a lengthy, sometimes borderline profane thread on the loading and seating of that particular boolit. I have--and load--the TL230RN boolit. But all of my round-nose .45 ACP stuff is very low-velocity stuff. I shoot it for fun and not much else, so I wanted a TL design boolit I could cast, lube, size and load with minimum fuss and maximum flexibility. My preferred shooting boolit in .45 ACP is a 200SWC with a bevel base.
You might PM 35Remington and ask him about a good OAL for that 228 boolit. I think--don't quote me-- I remember him saying there could be some pressure issues versus improper seating that would cause feeding difficulties.
4. Welcome home and thanks for your service.