Look Bob, there's no need for me to "settle down" as I am not concerned in the least. You want to take the risk you go right ahead. As I've previously said numerous times we are, or at least should be, free to make our own choices.
Also no need to be condescending. You criticize my use of 357 and 44 magnum test data in lieu of 9mm data yet use the 40 S&W (? because you sure didn't use a 235 gr bullet in the 9mm) as an example. You want to walk everything back then walk it. I don't care.
An honest question was asked by the OP and I answered with actual test data pointing out there could be a pressure problem. I did not tell the OP something I have gotten away with whether I really knew it could be hazardous or not as you are doing. I also told the OP what I would do if I had to use SR primers in the 9mm. I don't as I have a good supply of both primers for my own shooting needs.
I have explained everything to you in detail. If you want to understand it then you will. If you don't you won't. If you want to accept it you will, if you don't you won't. It's up to you, so, again, do as you will.
If you have any other questions the answers have already been given in my initial report and in answers to subsequent questions you ask because you obviously fail to read what I've written. Thus, I guess in todays jargon; "I'll have to circle back to you".......