For the third time in my life this past week a longtime associate and fellow shooter passed away, and the widow asked of me at his church service to sort out his firearms and related stuff in order for her to sell it and possibly ask others and associates if they had any interest.
Whether it was due to her being distraught or she is a genuinely distrustful person to add into her request in our conversation, "I don't know if I can trust you"
Well, this got me thinking about final wishes of firearms owners.
First off, widows should not have to ask associates, friends, or family members for assistance placing values on firearm related items. So IMO the owner of said equipment should have a running list of their assets and estimates of value for when they pass on for survivors.
Next up, I was disheartened after hearing her say, "I don't know if I can trust you" and I figure if the deceased owner of said equipment trusted the suggested person to deal with the widow or children, making a statement like this may cause (as it did in my case) the person being asked for help to draw further away and provide enough information to assist disposal and minimal help after.
Finally for friends and associates of the deceased who are interested in obtaining some of these assets. IMO, offering the survivors a fair researched current price will not only relieve them of needing to sell / dispose on their own but gain trust in your offer should they research your offer.