June second Cindy went back to the hospital in an ambulance. She was running a fever, had a Urinary tract infection, and was septic.
One of the screws fusing her L1-L2 joint was infected, badly. She was out of her head. Half the time could not remember her name. Thought there was 5 quarters in a dollar. They put her on a 6 week course of IV antibiotics, along with antibiotics by mouth. She was 11 days in the hospital then moved up a floor to a Rehab facility in the same building.
For the first month because of the whole Covid thing I could not see her at all. We did talk on our phones several times a day.
I was frustrated because it seemed like the Hospital and this Vibra rehab facility were constantly screwing things up.
Like the antidepressant she has been on since 89 was left out of her meds for 10 days.
And the only IV antibiotic that she was not allergic too was tearing her veins to pieces. Normal iv she'd get 2 treatments before it plugged up and they would have to start a new one.
Twice she had pic lines done and both times she was reacting to the tape they used to secure them. So she would itch them in her sleep and screw it up to where it would have to be removed.
The antibiotics severely inhibited her appetite. She has lost 60 lbs since Christmas, 30 in the last 6 weeks.
The infection points in her back took forever to heal. She kept having problems with the drains that were supposed to help. At one point she told people for 3 days that this drain is not working until her doctor finally heard her. He went and looked, unit was defective, had an air leak, so it would not, could not work.
That is the bad news, the hard stuff I have been slogging through for the last 6 weeks.
Here is the good news.
SHE IS HOME!
She is strong
She is able to get up and down on her own. Only thing she really needs help with are getting high things or things off the floor.
First 2 days were rocky, but we are back to our loving supporting caring roles.
Yesterday we were able to do haircuts for each other (I looked like Bozo)
The Lord in his infinite grace told me, Bill I know the load is on you. You have to do your work, her work, and take care of her also.
The strength you need to do this is there waiting for you bill. Draw on it as you have need of it.
Yesterday I was 4 loads of clothes, did dishes in the dishwasher, did haircuts, looked after my wife, and rearranged my hydroponics plants, swapping bigger plants outside for sun. I never ran out.
I just wanted you all to know. Yours prayers were heard. And they made all the difference in the world.
Cindy is home, cleaning, organizing, going through the backlog of mail. Singing (what a happy joyful sound)
So she has some rehab in front of her, and some readjusting. But she is coping.
I am sorry I have kept some of you in the dark at times. I was not coping so well.
Doing great now though.
Brothers I can never repay the gifts you have given. But if you have need, ASK, it shall be granted.
Thank you each and every one.
We are doing fine and the adventure continues. Just not sure we are going to be doing any traveling in the near future.
Love you guys.