Did you smash test the bullets? you should be able to flatten them & have the coating be intact. Are you seating & cr9imping in separate steps? Are you flaring enough that the coatring isn't scraping off the base edge someplace?
IMO, forget slugging, modern bbls are pretty uniform & if you load for more than one gun, & have diff bore dia, an issue. If you are sizing down in the dreaded LFCD, that could be part of the problem, but I have never gotten leading like that in any Glock regardless of the bullet size. That looks like coating failure. I used to run 0.357" in all my 9mm but went back to 0.356" because Ioad in mixed brass & would get the occasional fat round. No issues with accuracy or leading, commercial HT bullets or my own. The only powder I have ever seen hard on coated bullets is TG, so me, I would & do avoid TG.