I got after this thing this weekend. First thing I did was to thin down the wrist, it was just too fat for my hand. Started with a fine rasp and worked slowly until it felt good then worked it with 100 grit paper going up to 220. Sanding took it down a bit more and now it feels really good
Applied the stripper and let it do its thing then got it cleaned up. A little messy but much better than sanding the whole thing.
Then got it sanded to 220 grit.
I decided to go with Tru Oil and didn't stain it. I'll just let the wood speak for itself. I put on a thinned coat earlier this morning. It was pretty warm and low humidity today so this evening the first coat dried pretty well. I put on a second thinned coat and sanded it in with 320 grit. It really smoothed it out and filled the pores well. It looks like the forend is going to be a touch lighter but doesn't look bad at all.
Thanks again for the advice and someone mentioned, maybe a different thread, about rubbing cooking oil into your hands then soap and water for getting the finish off. Works like a champ!
Planning one more thinned coat sanded in with 400 grit then I'll start with unthinned oil and rub in by hand until I get it where I want it.