I'm similar to you in regards to being a bit OCD about my brass and prep. I likely do things differently than a lot of guys, but here's my method...
All of my brass gets decapped with a universal die on the Rockchucker. I wet tumble with chips and a small squirt of Dawn. After drying, I dry tumble in walnut or cob with a squirt of car polish/wax. Brass is clean and looks good by the end of the process.
The rounds I use more for plinking and am less concerned about sub-MOA accuracy at 100+ I most typically load on my Loadmaster. I prime off-press in a Lee auto bench primer and have the primer system removed on the Loadmaster. I tend to check the first 5-10 rounds each on powder, then every 10th or so when I'm satisfied I'm getting consistent throws. I hand-set the projectiles so I can peak into the case to make sure powder looks good. If I have any concern whatsoever, I'll dump it into the scale and make sure.
For my more accurate rounds, I still load on the Rockchucker. I have a tray and measure out each load and work in a process where I size them all, trim, prime (again, on the bench primer), drop powder and seat the bullet (I seat directly after the drop on each round so as not to double-drop or miss one), then crimp them all (if I crimp that particular caliber).
It fits my being particular about certain things and has worked well for me so far.