Here's a theoretical situation, with a theoretical decision to be made.
Say you have a job in an area that you like. You have a wife and several young kids that love where they live. The job is good, great boss and coworkers, interesting and challenging work. The drawback is the company stinks. Due to certain factors you're looking at a possible decrease in income over the next couple years, structural changes regarding benefits, with very substantial impact for those insuring a family. Money is a bit tight.
An awesome job opportunity comes up. You have been offered a job over a thousand miles away in a very different geographical location, different weather and culture than you're used to. It's the same kind of work, working with/for someone you know and work with well. The pay and benefits are significantly better and the move would be paid for.
As to career it's a no-brainer, but it's in a bigger city with a lot more traffic, crowding, and crime. The wife is opposed, and the kids are in tearful dread of moving. The upside would be not having to stress about money so much anymore, but the potential downside is everybody hating it, saying Why did we ever move?!
So, theoretical situation. If it were real, I'd have already made my decision I think, but I'd be second guessing the wisdom of it. I wouldn't be asking for advice per se, just thoughts on the subject.
Any thoughts?