Now THAT is the attitude for Thanksgiving, Mary! It really CAN be done, if both parties are just willing.
My son smoked a turkey and a ham yesterday, and gee golly wow was it GOOD! Also had my wife's great dressing, my DIL's sis brought a really good sweet potato soufle, had green bean casserole (one of my fave's!), a squash casserole that was really great, butter beans, and I can't remember what all else. I did good, and didn't overeat TOO badly. Everybody got plates to take home and warm up later for supper, and it was still at least as good! My favorite warmup is warmed up turkey with BBQ sauce. Kind'a gives it a really neat and scrumptious change of taste with the sauce! But not having over-eaten like I have traditionally done, I forewent the BBQ sauce, and just enjoyed another great meal. Everything traditionally Thanksgiving seems to be at least as good warmed over as it was when piping hot. That's kind'a fitting for the purpose of the day and the meal, I think. Thanks is always as good "warmed over" as it was originally.
I was at peace with the whole world for a day. Thank the Lord for that. We all need these brief interludes sometimes.