its funny that many here let people seperate them selves and its really God and his son we worship, not the people around us. may be if your the one who sets an example in the church you could affect one of the believers to do better. i had to change churches once as it got so out of hand with the pastor and a girlfriend on the side that i had to go somewheres else. that stuff happens, leave. also i agree, if the methodist church allows gays we will split away, no choise. my pastor will split also. can allow that in a church. Go to a church of your choise and worship with the Joy that as a christian we are given. to have ones name wrote in the lambs book of life is a awesome thing and worth being happy about.