bearman, if you paid with a USPSMO, they will trace the Money Order and see if it has been cashed, and if so, who and when. Cost you about $7.00 for the service.. I had a similar experience with a lady in California when I bought a Lee Loader from her off GB and claimed she didn't receive the money order. It was surprising how fast she found it where it had been misplaced when the post office inspector called. She had cashed it, but I let that part go. She sent me a email saying she had found it under her desk and was shipping my Lee. It showed up a month and a half late. It is a slow process but hang in there.