Ok, I need good honest opinions here. I am going to get my loving wife a new pistol for Christmas. She has always been a fan of the Bersa 380, I know!, but I want to get her something a lot more reliable and better quality. Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking the Bersa's and they are good guns, I just want to get her a great gun. She wants to stay around the 380 or 9mm cartridge, but after all, I'm putting this in her hands for protection so it needs to be top quality. She is an experienced shooter so thats not a big deal. She does have good gun control and prefers auto pistols. I don't want her to have to deal with any single actions, for safety reasons, and ssh don't like a laser. We went looking today and she has found a Glock 42 and is quiet excited about it. So with that said, I'm not a big Glock fan and could use some feedback on the 42's. Also if anyone has a particular model to show her, it's hard for me to see past a Springfield or a Ruger. I'm kind of hard headed about this, but it's for me and this one is for her so she has to be the one that says yes to it. I told her not to look at the price just find something she likes. I just need some opinions here, what would you give your wives?