If you have ever looked at the very long throat in a 45 ACP cylinder for a sixgun you will know that sending a bullet trundling down the throat before it hits the forcing cone will do no harm to accuracy. Bullets will be fully out of the case and free in the throat before they hit the forcing cone.
So you are correct as their is no difference between 45, 38/357 and 44/44 Mag. Folks just seem to be married to numbers in books and afraid to use their brains.