I don't think God ever wants to use a 2x4 on us. I think he is willing to do whatever it takes to get our attention and maybe spare us the loss of our soul by allowing the loss of worldly things.
I ignorred the Lord for a short time after coming to know him, and He showed me how dangerous it is to ignor His gentle nudges, by allowing me to make the worst mistakes I have ever made.
After that, I try to keep my ear to the ground. I listen. God is very very patient with me, as long as im listening.
Doesn't mean I get it right all the time, but I'm trying as best I know how.
God responds with gentleness, and good things. The only downside is that this creates more and more opportunities for me to be distracted, confused, or to just take my finger off my number.
I think He always gives me just a little more rope than I need, ya know?
It's like every blessing comes with a warning label.
Like this call here. It was just so awesome the way that played out, but I got to thinking, what's the catch? Why did this happen this special way? I think that in this case, if I do not heed the gentile nudge here, then the next time it will be the 2X4.
So, to quote an old hymn:
You alone are my strength, my shield.
To you alone may my spirit yield.