Gee whiz, Wally!!!!
Just when it looked like sensible heads had all made their cases intelligently on either side of the opposing "go ahead" and the "*I* wouldn't do it and ask that you don't", and there was a certain level of adult-style agreeing to disagree and letting each other pursue our own preference, we get a mini-argument going!
Give our esteemed OP gamma50 a break! Some of us (including his sometimes a bit-less-than-considerate offspring) choose to "plink" with full-power loads. Just 'cause YOU don't/won't/don't like to do that, don't give you no license to piss all over the idea.
His house, his rules, his preferences and leave him be.
There are some valid points on *published* old stuff from Skeeter being beyond-spec loads even for .357 Mag standards. Not every post the last 24 hours has honestly acknowledged that, but I'm sure that gamma50 and Leftiye and Char-Gar have indeed caught all the implications even if not directly addressed in their later posts.
IME, QuickLOAD can indeed predict pressures and velocities quite well IF proper tweaks to the powder's burn rate are entered AFTER entering case capacity, case length, barrel length, AND actual chrono'd velocities from a preliminary test session. That puts a person closer to the "in MY firearm" truth of the situation. Once that is done, then how far to back off from the old-data 9 grains of Unique load can be reasonably estimated.
The "burden of adequate precautions" for what gamma50 wants to do is light enough that any of the potential harms from those of US (myself included) who are reluctant to say "okay, no problem" would really fall more squarely on the stupidity of anyone downstream who is stupid enough to not believe what the labels say. I do recommend red-marking the primers so loose cases can be identified, and putting a legend of "Red Primer = OVERLOAD for .38 Special--use in .357 Magnum handguns ONLY" or some similar language on labels all over the ammo storage spot, the gun boxes, and whatever is likely to be hauled out to the shooting area. Or he could just personally supervise the distribution and firing of those specially-marked boxes of ammo Goodness and trust his kids. They might not have had the presence of mind to collect the brass in months and years past, but they may well have the intelligence to be trusted with blue-pill .38 Special cases. He will know that better than any of us, and I for one will trust his judgment. He has received good information here and can now make up his own mind after proper final testing of the loads he works up.
gamm50: PLEASE know that in my opinion, the only "pressure sign" worth "reading" even at .357 Mag levels is the velocity of the projectile with that powder and that bullet and that barrel length, vs. what a GOOD source like QuickLOAD says. There is almost never a safe load that exceeds what a full-power factory load delivers. That said, a .38 Special case with its smaller powder chamber will reach max pressure at a little bit slower velocity than an otherwise-identical load in a .357 Mag case. IME, losing a full 100 FPS is always more than enough to get well below max spec pressures.
Chill time now, everyone???