Magana.
Do not give up. You should never have used the FCD. I use Dillon dies loading 9mm and they are fine -- but any standard taper crimp die will do the job.
I use W231 or HP 38 (same powders) and do not get leading. I have used Clays as well. You have a sizing issue (could be affected by the crimp) or lack of lube/coating. Focus there first before worrying about powders.
Alloy could be a problem but it can normally be resolved with sizing. But it looks as though you have tired up to .358 without success and that is puzzling.
Posting a picture of your bullets before loading and after removal from the finished round may be helpful.
Don Verna