I tend to believe there is some truth in that caution, if you change the word 'heat' to 'flame'.
The electric charcoal starter might be safe, because those things (typically) stay below a thousand degrees...not a lot higher than casting temps. But those torch flames are way up there, and the lead is directly exposed to it.
The material 'near' the flame might simply melt and run, but the metal right at the point of contact just has to be doing some vaporizing...I would think.
CM