My in-laws both had hospice. They were exceptional people in regards to the elderly. We all learned to be positive when speaking and not to show signs of depression. Sometimes a small kind gesture before leaving for work would brighten their day, watching a favorite old movie, surprising them with ice cream has always brought a smile. This older generation cherished simpler things, such as spending time and just talking. Good luck think positive and smile for them. Prayers from my end.