Originally Posted by
Snoopz
Have been a lurker here decided to register, to join in. But saw this thread, read through all of it and I can relate first hand.
Lost my job a year ago, unable to get unemployment, didn't do anything bad, my ex employer decided to fight my appeal and pulled no stops, forget all the dedication etc. it means nothing. Anyway one has to be in that spot to truly understand what it's like, I used my 401k to help me survive till now, but when you swallow your pride, to ask for something, the way you were brought up. I have had my power turned off, while trying to get state assistance, just to help pay my bill, people there say they understand, but they don't, it's just a job to them. The line I get "you sound frustrated" then you start to reply you have a job and maybe you need to switch places with some of us, then its well will take a check / credit card, you explain what don't you understand "no income". I'm no spring chicken by no means, if it wasn't for my parents who help with me with my mortgage which isn't much and close friends. You tend to know what is meant by true family and true friends..so I can relate to all who have lost their jobs and trying to keep everything together while others take what they have for granted. I'm done ranting, but wanted those to know that they are not alone... possessions are exactly that, family is more important, that can not be replaced...be positive, be up beat, our time will come....
-Snoopz