Is this a normal adult life?
in all honesty I look back on the last 10 years of my life and think to myself "youre such a child". Ill be 30 this year, I just bought my first house, I got married 3 years ago this October and I'm broke enough that I wish I could find a night job. My home purchase was the first time living on my own, so I'm not sure what being an actual adult really entails. Aside from get up and go to work and make sure that when the bills are due they're paid in full. My family isn't exactly the most...responsible group of people, aside from my mother. I'm not trying to complain I'm just curious if this is normal. The pressure of making sure everything taken care of, coupled with my hobbies and the lack of money for them is extremely stressful. I've always been the type of person to just make it work and if you tell me I cant do something, I do it just to be spiteful. overall I just wanted to question as well as vent my thoughts/frustrations. like I said, I haven't had the best example set for me in some instances. So needless to say I'm getting overwhelmed. I will have the American dream though, I just may ask for some experienced advice. I hope this isn't too in depth for the boards, but everyone here seems to be a friendly and helpful bunch. Thanks for reading
Is this a normal adult life?
Sounds pretty normal. Focus on paying off the house and being debt free. Most don't worry about this and carry a debt load way to late into their life.