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opos
11-06-2017, 10:54 AM
Just looking for some discussion in a very general way...A little background...I'm 80...have been a shooter and reloader since the late 50's/early 60's. Have hunted much of my earlier life and target shot as hunting became too much of an issue with my health as I got older...I have never had any sort of issue with loading, shooting, handling guns, teaching some friends and family to shoot, etc...In short I have been a careful, respectful, competent and safe hobbyist and sportsman with handguns, rifles and shotguns.

I have no interest what so ever in military style weapons...no interest in clothing and accessories that "speak" to agression and being a warrior...I am a gun enthusiast with a love for quality guns and a special place for beautiful wood combined with excellent "mechanicals". I enjoy (or have over the years) working with wild cat loads.

I have no offenses...minor or serious concerning firearms, family troubles, etc and have no reason to not be able to own and shoot anything that is legal...I have no interest in modifying guns to "skirt" laws nor to build my own weapons to avoid serial numbering, etc.

Now for the "rub"...Since the Las Vegas mess and now with the Texas shootings, along with the Fresno church shooting the other day, etc...I laid awake last night wondering if it might be time to just sell off the guns and equipment I have and move along with other hobbies I enjoy and not hear and see the daily turmoil involved in the gun sports.....No, I'm not letting anyone "scare me out" and yes I do understand the Second Amendment and what goes with it...I'm at the point that shooting is difficult at my age what with eyes going worse, difficulty walking the range to set targets, no interest in hunting any more, potential for accidents due to aging issues, etc....I guess I'm wondering if it's all still worth it?

I find myself getting up in the morning, having coffee and heading right for the gun boards to see what the latest is and often what I see is not what I want to spend time on...everytime there is a shooting it seems the "monday morning quarterbacks" are way off in left field discussing "what if's", and all sort of conversations about how the gun owner is being abused...rather than just letting things play out and see what really happened?
It often looks like the "gun boards" have become "excuse boards" and amateur legal boards....I see rumors being sworn to be fact and when found o be rumor, excuses are made and "it's still people out to get the gun owners" conversations..even if the particular thing has no bearing on confiscation or restriction.

I simply don't undertand the immediate need to find some defense for things that may or may not need a defense in reality. I've watched time after time when a particular firearm or class of firearm get's restricted (I'm in California so that happens a lot)...example would be a 45 "clone" of a 1911. It's expensive to have hand guns "make the list" in California so many manufacturers may skip adding similar guns if they already have an example or two listed for legal sale. Up until a year or so ago there were a numbe of gun shops out of state that would "convert" he banned gun to a "single shot" with a longer barrel" in order to now call it a "single shot" and use an old single shot (not single action) exemption...it cost a bunch of money and when it was run through the dealer as it came into the state...all the Parts" came in a bag and it could be put back together in a few minutes and voila..the "banned" firearm had been "legally imported"...sort of.

I guess that there is nothing wrong with that kind of thing except for the loud mouth bragging about beating the Government and the libs...One board might have as many as 5 or 10 postings going all the time about how to "beat the system"....the lawmakers have folks that read these threads all the time and as expected...the law was changed and the single shot exemption is now illegal and the practice is stopped..
No reason for any of it except too many hot shots that are hell bent on just skirting the laws...it's not about shooting...it's about beating the system.

I was a street racer as a kid...we had a drag strip where I lived but the thrill of beating the cops was what we lived for...we did anything to bet the cops at their own game and lots of folks got hurt or killed and lots of laws got changed..I guess it's a bit like that with what I see on the gun boards except the "opponent" is the whole more liberal side of the political and media environment..we holler about losing rights and then we go slap the bull on the nose and dare it to act...

My enjoyment of a couple of days at the range is becoming more and more difficult...Because the media is full of all the horror stories that revolve around the tragedies and there is a ready bunch of folks wanting to stand up and vocally defend our rights...the general public is pulled into the discussion...I used to reload in the garage...door open for fresh air..just enjoying a nice day...now with some new laws (yes, California....but probably headed your way as well) that anyone...neighbor, delivery man, someone visiting, etc...that sees you loading or messing with your guns can call the Sheriff or police and have them come investigate and possibly restrict your activities...it's one hell of a mess when I fear the UPS or FED EX guy delivering components to my house and 'reading the boxes"....I don't want to be on guard for things all the time.

Guess I'm just venting my frustrations a bit...I see where some guy or woman get noted as "having an arsenal" consisting of 5 or 6 guns and several hundred rounds of ammo....anyone here consider that an arsenal?? It's probably one shelf in a decent safe...one of several that most shooters have.

Getting old is a beeeetch...I see lots of things on the horizon and while I'm "still in the fight" I do have major concerns about how long I can enjoy holding out...I can't legally carry here so other than protection within my home a gun is of little help in protection...I have to lock it down just to go to the range...my neighbor can complain that I'm a risk...we have new laws starting January first that restrict ammo purchases and now the keyboard commandos are starting the drone about "how long before they restrict handloading?"...all the chatter will probably get the attention of the political folk and I'd not be surprised to see reloading restricted as well.....

Don't yell too hard...it's an old man that has had decades of freedoms and has fought for decades to keep the freedoms...feeling a bit overwhelmed.

Smoke4320
11-06-2017, 11:05 AM
This too shall pass ..
There is evil all thru this world .. Do not let it get you down ..
continue to enjoy what you have for so long
and to put it another way there are plenty of drunk drivers... will you sell and not drive a car because of those
there are bank robbers.... will you swear off using any money

You are not the problem and getting rid of things you enjoy will not stop others from harm or harming

JonB_in_Glencoe
11-06-2017, 11:13 AM
I hope I'm still shootin and walking the range when I'm 80.

It seems to me, that part of your beef is with living in CA. I imagine there are some good reasons to live there? but you haven't listed any in your post.

MUSTANG
11-06-2017, 11:15 AM
Staying with or leaving a Hobby is dependent on the person, their available resources, and the enjoyment one gets from it.

I remember years ago (pre-1968) that the NRA Rifleman was almost exclusively dedicated to rifles, pistols, shooting, and some Law Enforcement training and issues sprinkled in. Now we have two NRA magazines, party filled with articles on new firearms, ammunition, etc..., Hunting articles, and lots of ads and political discussion. The Competitive Shooting articles were predominantly pushed out to other venues. As a result of this; many new magazines began to pop up, tailored to the particular "Passion" of groups of people.

I would say, find the areas that satisfy your particular areas of interest and focus on them. If shooting and the associated "Hobby" areas no longer satisfy, then seek other new interests to fill the area.

lefty o
11-06-2017, 11:32 AM
no one is going to tell you what to do. i say make up your mind based on your needs and desires, not because some jackholes kill people. it is after all the person, not the tool. someone mowed down a bunch of people with a truck, but no one seems to think trucks are dangerous weapons.

DoubleAdobe
11-06-2017, 11:36 AM
I understand how you get locked in to living somewhere, even though it gets sour in many regards. I think you would be much happier IF you could find your way out of that repressive place. But I understand that it is not easy or sometimes not even really workable.

OS OK
11-06-2017, 11:36 AM
I think you are feeling a 'bit overwhelmed' right now.

We Californians are living behind 'enemy lines' politically at the moment but I really don't think this will last too much longer. With the Left and the Demoncrats falling apart and the 'good Patriots' awakening...well, we're going to take this State back one vote at a time. We are going to take back America one vote at a time, you have already seen this happening with President Trumps election...

All it takes is prayer and participation in the system as it is.

Remember this..."All it takes for evil to flourish is for good men (like yourself) to do nothing!"

Stay strong in your convictions, whatever they are, even if you do quit...c h a r l i e

opos
11-06-2017, 11:49 AM
For years I've had the old "move out of California" line thrown at me...I've lived in Denver, Fort Collins, Albion, Ne, San Francisco, Albuquerque, Oakland, Los Angeles and San Diego...and without question any time some little item came up there were always folks that said "you should move to xXXX"..I've discovered over the years that anytime I moved...when I got there...there I was. I'm sure there might have been some folks in Texas where the shooting occured that hated big cities and might have said "move"...but maybe not so much so this morning..Forgot to add I'd lived in a small town in Nebraska of about 400-500 people on a couple of occasions..great place but it had it's problems and older folks said "best to move" when hospitls and health care talks came up...as there was nothing there.

No, it's not in the location and I'm not going anywhere...I love California and especially San Diego...

I have wonderful family here..I'm involved with a group of friends that I wouldn't leave at all...I collect and restore antique farm equipment (engines, tractors, etc") and we have a terrific club and one of the finest antique equipment museums in the States here...I've spent years marlin and tuna fishing and love the ocean...Nothing "physical" going to run me out unless it's agressive tourists in the summer (but we know how to beat that system"
No, it's about the nature of the beast.....Just as I don't play golf...I have pepole that have told me I "have to play golf" all my life...just nothing there for me....I think there are still things for me in the shooting hobby but maybe less interesting in the long run than what it has been...age has it's part in everything as do crowded conditions and changing politicial movements. I do know when I shut the computer and TV off and go putter in the garage, etc I have better days..probably that there has been such an overwhelming amount of this negative stuff lately I just feel a bit on edge....the old Johnny Carson reruns I watch nightly are kind of a tonic for me..maybe I need more tonic of the positive nature...

dragon813gt
11-06-2017, 11:54 AM
Living in California certainly doesn't help. But living other places doesn't make you anymore immune from all the political pressure. I'm a lot younger and it weighs on me heavily. Thankfully if I don't search out the information I can stay uninformed. This only helps my mood and stress level.

I don't have an answer for you. But if you feel like it's time to move on them move on. You can still vote which helps the cause. Or maybe it doesn't because you're in California and the state seems to be lost at all levels. Do what makes you happy and don't look back.

bedbugbilly
11-06-2017, 12:13 PM
I'm older . . not as old as you but still "older". i think that many of the thoughts that you are having are pretty typical of many of the average person that has enjoyed hunting, shooting, reloading and guns for years.

As far as giving it up . . . we all have free will and that is an individual decision. I also suffer from health issues which prevent me from shooting in competition now - bad eyesight? Mine is limited and the open sights are pretty fuzzy now but a scope sure makes things a lot clearer. If someone thinks that I'm a "wussy" for using a scope - the heck with them. I am at least still able to shoot. If your mobility is hindering you at the range, then possibly it is time to give up the shooting but there also may be someone who would be willing to help you set your targets. Stopping the reloading? Well, if you are no longer going to shoot, then why reload. But you can still enjoy your guns even if by just looking at them, handling them and remembering all the memories they have give you of good times.

When such things as Vegas and Texas happen, I don't think you are alone as it breaks the hearts of many of us. And while some may jump on the same the assault rifle band wagon immediately, I instead say quite a few prayers for the victims, their families, the first responders and those who have to do the investigating While I have never been involved with a "mass" shooting incident, I was involved in shooting situations when I worked ambulance and fire rescue - some multiple victims so I do have an idea of the effect it has on everyone involved. For those involved - families, first responders, etc. it will have an effect on them for the rest of their lives and I can assure you that they will be plagued with nightmares during the night a a frequent basis.

There are a lot of evil people out there. There always has been and there always will be. Situations such as these will never cease regardless of what legislation is or isn't passed. Personally, I do not blame the gun. The gun does not have a free will of its own. The person behind it does and for those trying to make it a political issue is nothing more than an effort to get their agenda in to practice at the expense of the millions of law abiding citizens who just want to live their lives in peace, make a decent living and provide for themselves and their families and enjoy the hard won rights that generations of Americans, men and women, have fought for and died for.

I, too, will be faced with some of the same decisions that you are mulling over at some point - probably sooner than later. My wife and I don't have kids to pass my guns and related items on to and I don't want them to be a burden to her to have to dispose of when I am gone. It is a point that we all have to face at some time.

I consider myself a fairly conservative person. I usually voted for who I thought could do the best job which meant that my vote would often cross party lines. I was born and raised in a normally Democrat state (MI) which was heavy to automotive and unions - but my leanings have always been the other way. BUT, in all the years, with friends, acquaintances, neighbors, etc. - regardless of which way any of us were voting or who we backed, we could have civilized conversations about it. The key to that? We were brought up to have respect for others.

In musing about such things, I really do fear for the direction our country is heading. We have "rights" guaranteed by the Constitution but in today's world, the politicians seem to want to rule based on "their" interpretations of the Constitution - and that goes for all political parties. Freedom of Speech? Hey, I truly believe in that as we all should and I am willing to listen to anyone's opinion. But that Amendment does not mean, nor was it intended to mean all of the vile hate spouted by those that think they can say anything that they want in trying to push their beliefs and agenda - and it doesn't matter who it is doing it - political parties, race or religion. I was brought up with "old time" values as the majority of us were who are older. Work hard, have faith in our Creator, respect others and if you couldn't say something nice about somebody, then don't say anything at all, etc. Unfortunately, those things have eroded away over the last fifty years or so and it is snowballing so fast - and I blame all the media and social media for much it, that I really fear that is beyond the point of return. Loss of "right" - just look at the state that you live in. And all of the "hate" that is being spewed by all of the various "groups" out there is only making it worse. The media does nothing but drive a bigger wedge between groups - races, religions, political parties, and on and on. Seems to me that their emphasis is more on division and pointing out differences rather than what we all hold dear in common. Personally, I judge a man (or woman) on what's in their heart, not the color of their skin, their religion, their education, etc. - but there is so much going on today, that what do people expect? With those that have mental issues and are "borderline", all of it does nothing but influence them to "cross the line" and do some of the hideous things that have been going on. IMHO

You sound like a fine gentleman opos and I wished you lived down the street as it would be such a pleasure to gather and have a morning cup of coffee and a good conversation about anything with. I think your thoughts echo what many of us think at times and I hope that whatever you end up deciding as far as "quitting" or "cutting back", that you have other things to turn to that will provide you with as much enjoyment as what you have had over the years with your guns, shooting, reloading, etc. keeping active is the "key" to a happy life and remembering that the glass is half full, not half empty. Good luck to you sir! Just my musings . .

OS OK
11-06-2017, 12:20 PM
If movies are an escape for you...try some old Westerns, black and white. I have a collection of them and when I feel overwhelmed I watch those and stay away from the computer, don't have regular TV so that's not an issue anymore.

In the old Westerns the good folk are always being taken advantage of but in the end evil is triumphed over by good!
That always reinforces my basic belief in humanity even though lately it's been running pretty thin!

quail4jake
11-06-2017, 12:21 PM
It would be unfortunate to see you leave the fold but I can understand your sentiments. We need folks like you and in 5 years you will join the ranks of the few, the illustrious...Boolit casters over 85!

Iron Whittler
11-06-2017, 12:24 PM
Sir, I feel your concern. Take comfort in the fact that You have conducted yourself as an honorable man. You had nothing to do with the recent events. I, as you, feel great sorrow for the families affected by these acts. Your collection of firearms have not injured anyone. I too am getting on in years, but still like to let one go. I like to retire to the gun room and remember the days gone by. Cleaning, oiling, and caring for my "babies" is a pleasant way to pass a good time. I will not allow myself to be shamed out of my rights or possessions. If you still enjoy 'em, keep 'em. They will not harm anyone by themselves. It is impossible to legislate right or wrong for an inanimate object. An old man once told me to never make decisions when you are upset about something, your hungry, or your tired. Sleep on it a while before making a decision. Whatever you choose to do, you do because it is your decision. Fare well my fellow shooter. Best wishes to you and yours. Iron Whittler

johnho
11-06-2017, 12:28 PM
I know what you mean opos. I'm only 72 and find I just can't do what I did. I still reload and cast but not as much. I guess that means I shoot less. I used to shoot Bullseye but can't do much good with it now and can't even shoot the 45 with one hand, too much arthritis and just getting weaker. I still try to shoot Service Rifle and M1 matches but they are getting a bit tough now to score well. But I will still do it once I get over the reactions to the several different prostate cancer treatments. What I did find was how much I really like rimfire benchrest. I started these matches at my club recently and got a good turnout. Guess from who? All white haired guys. Rimfire doesn't beat you up and you can sit down. Doesn't get much better than that. The equipment can get pricey depending on how well you want to do but who cares? Sell off some of that stuff you don't shoot and get a good rifle, scope and rests. All you need. If you do want to do that PM me and I will let you know what we do at our club. There is USBR, ARA, and ABRA programs. Just pick a target or two and shoot.

Like someone just told me, getting old ain't for the faint of heart. I try to tell myself too, it's not what's behind me it's what's ahead. But shooting BR can be a blast.

opos
11-06-2017, 01:09 PM
The replies are interesting and have a decidedly "adult" nature which is refreshing...I was thinking way back (still got one whale of a memory) to my days as a teen when I spent some time in the small town in Nebraska...the son of the Mayor of the county seat was my age...we did what teen agers do in sneaking a beer, hanging around, etc...he was just an average teen age boy..then I heard he news..his girlfriend had been fooling around with a town kid so Kermit (yep...like the frog) shot and killed the girl and boy and tried to shoot the girls mother and then himself..He spent the next 35 or 40 years in prison in Lincoln and when released became a local character in Lincoln around the UN campus and on the streets dowtown....He contracted cancer a few years ago and went to his cousin's house in Idaho to die.

I never did understand his insane motivation....but it was there...I don't recall one person wondering if it was an assault type weapon..I don't recall anything much in the local paper except that it had happened and the results of the trial..Just an insane teenager that reacted to his insanity...I do recall the confusion and hurt it caused....his dad died soon after and his sister left the country and married a man from another place...i think his mom moved and died a widow woman.

Preacher Jim
11-06-2017, 01:10 PM
I totally understand your feelings. I have reduced recoil, shoot less build fewer and load less. that said I enjoy the fellowship at the range. teach a lot of younger fellows to do the things I love to do. I have expanded the things I can do and shoot when I can get to the range. My wife sets targets because I can't walk the range and helps me load and unload the toys. we both enjoy getting out and relaxing.
I am a young fellow to you at 74 with bad knees and one lung but I will quit when I can no longer pull the trigger.
you may not do what you once did but you can still help others learn what is only in your head. Books don't do what experience does.
do not get to shoot matches any more cause they are on Sunday and I am in the pulpit on Sunday morning. I figure God gave me this hobby and I use it for His glory. tell a lot of young fellows about Jesus at the range or LGS when I am there. Because I am using this hobby for a tool to reach the lost it is important to me and the political hacks can cry all they want my guns are a tool in my ministry.

RGrosz
11-06-2017, 01:16 PM
Sir,
I'm only (or should I say old) 65. I've been shooting since I was about 12, walked 8 miles to Anthon to buy my first gun. A 22 and a couple of boxes of shells that my dad didn't know I had, he thought that 22's were too dangerous. Finely at 15 got to hunt with Grandpa's 410 on his farm and told Dad about the 22. I've had guns ever since, Started reloading in the '70's, and casting shortly after that. There was a time in the 90's when I didn't touch any guns or fishing tackle, I was too busy trying to survive and make a living. It took all my time living pay check to pay check. Eventually things got better and I could afford some of the things again. Now that I can it seems that in the last 6 mouths to a year, arthritis has gotten worse and it's sometimes kind of hard to do some of the things I really enjoy. Don't know why I've told you (and the world) that but IO do hope that at 80 I'm still going like you. You have earned the right to live your life how you see fit, what ever makes you happy and what ever you want to do.
That's my 2 cents in this discussion.
Rob

Finster101
11-06-2017, 01:28 PM
It's a very personal decision that is yours alone to make. I do understand enjoying certain things less as we age. I'm only 57 but there are things that I was once really into that I just simply care nothing about anymore. You also have no need to justify your decision to anyone but yourself.

fivefang
11-06-2017, 02:23 PM
Iron Whittler, as a 83 yr. young guy I thank you for posting what a Old Man once told you, Our Creator has blessed me 100% of my life, yet I ask for more, not just for soothing my emotions which are stressed right now, Thank YOU FiveFang

aspangler
11-06-2017, 02:34 PM
I am only 65 but I too feel the strain. I have degenerative disk desease, stenosis, and arthritis in my back. I have been told "no more deer hunting, You can't drag a deer, you can't lift anything more than 10 pounds, etc." I still do those things and more. I have seen too many people just quit and they sit down and do nothing and the next time you hear about them they are bed ridden or dead. Not saying that is going to happen to you but just to say, as long as you possibly can, keep on keeping on. Do something for exercise and enjoyment. It will help to keep you young. My dad died at 91 and walked everyday untill about a week before he passed. That was what he liked to do and I went with him many times. I treasure those memories. Maybe you can make some memories with your family. It would mean much to them and would help you too.

Just my 2 cents worth.

lightman
11-06-2017, 02:35 PM
First of all, I salute you for still being active in the shooting and casting community at 80. I only hope that I can make it to where you are someday. I too, wish you were a neighbor. To visit and drink coffee together, maybe shoot a little, talk guns, ect.

Only you can decide the direction you want to take concerning guns and shooting. Some of your decision could depend on what family or friends that you have that have the same interest. If you sell off your guns and casting/loading equipment you can still enjoy the hobby through sites such as this one.

I wish you Good Luck with your decision.

fatelk
11-06-2017, 02:37 PM
It's funny that you mention Albion, Nebraska. I know that little town fairly well. Small world. You probably knew some of my family at one point or another.

Interest and involvement in a hobby is up to you, of course. I've found that sometimes I need to consciously decide what I really want to do. For example, I gave up hunting nearly 20 years ago. I was raised around a lot of hunters, have friends that live to hunt; it's just something that a man does. I wasn't very good at it and I just don't like to kill things. One day I realized that it really wasn't my thing and I was just doing it because I somehow felt that I should, so I quit. Nothing against it, just not my thing.

I know that's different from where you're at because it sounds like you enjoy guns and shooting, but if you feel you'd rather back off and do something else, more power to you. I'm at a similar point myself. I'm quite a bit younger, raising a young family and worrying about how to support them. I'm currently getting rid of a lot of my accumulated junk to focus on raising my kids and paying the mortgage.

Yeah, politics and such get me down too. I get tired of all the fight and drama and hate all the time. It scares me just how polarized this country is. I was talking to a guy a while back who said he was worried that all the craziness could be leading to something really bad, kind of like pre-WWII Europe. That seems drastic to me, and I certainly hope he's wrong, for my kids' sake.

popper
11-06-2017, 03:12 PM
It's just like driving, when you can't do it safely, stop. Mom is 98, loved to play organ. Played by memory after she couldn't read the music, then when the fingers stopped working well, down the road for others to use. Now she can't walk and is really bored. If YOU want to continue, use what works and you like, down the road with other stuff.
The world has always been a little nuts anyway. Don't let what others do bother you - for what you want to do. You have family to take care of you when needed, consider yourself very lucky.
This board & others have lots of different personalities, you have lots of experience, maybe it needs another Mod?

Col4570
11-06-2017, 03:21 PM
I am 80 and was shooting yesterday (Sunday).Just a 30 Bird Sporting Clay Shoot but enjoyable.I also shoot Rifle,45.70,50.70,577,32.40,Whitworth rifle,22 RF.I love it and will continue until I can no longer do it.At Present I am good to go and believe the Shooting keeps me going.

Grmps
11-06-2017, 03:30 PM
You have lived a full life and have seen and gone through a lot. You have enjoyed firearms and reloading longer than most here have been alive. You deserve what peace and tranquility you can obtain in your “golden” (they should have called it grey) years.
I’m afraid that giving up a hobby you have loved for a better part of your life due to your distaste of what political liberals and zealots have done and are doing to your hobby and rights will not ease the discomfort you feel from their bantering’s. You will always have a fond place in your heart for your life long hobby/ way of life. You get rid of what you love, you will miss it, even if you can’t do it anymore and you will still feel anger and discomfort at the bantering and changes.
Selling you guns, staying off the gun boards and avoiding the news will limit, but no eliminate the exposure to your bane but I’m afraid will also leave a hole in your life. You will miss your old friends (both your guns and some members on the boards)
You turmoil reminds me of this quote/prayer
“Lord, grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.”

quail4jake
11-06-2017, 03:35 PM
I was taught to shoot trap when I was 11 years old by a 94 year old man. He was still shooting including handicap when he was over 100. Don't quit.

Hogtamer
11-06-2017, 04:00 PM
What a special post. Thank you Opos! A wiser man than us all, Solomon, pondered as you are doing about a lot of things and gave us the book of Ecclesiastes. I'm not sure a young man can appreciate all the wisdom therein but you are in a special season that God grants some. You might start in chapter 3. Thanks again for the reminder that long life is so much richer and deeper than concerns for the moment. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes+3&version=NKJV

GOPHER SLAYER
11-06-2017, 04:05 PM
Opos, I am in the same boat as you, to quote a tired old metaphor. I am 83 and have a safe full of guns, mostly single shots, some of which I have not fired in years. I care nothing about the black guns and hate to be seated to the right of one at the rifle range. The spent brass they spew out can be downright dangerous. I also love San Diego, it has the best climate in the world without any bugs. I was stationed there for three years in the early '50s. I tried to find a place to move to when I retired and looked at several areas in various states. My wife and I have also traveled across the country over the years. They all had their problems. I love California. While some of our friends are posting pictures of heavy snow falls, it is still in the 70s here. What is the point in living in a state with large shooting areas if you are snowed in much of the year. I know the old equipment museum that you mentioned and it is a great place to visit. I used to take our son there when he was young and he found it fascinating, especially watching the blacksmith. I heard one bit of advice that really helped me deal with all the horrible news. Stop listening to it. I listen to Rush in the morning and fox news at night and skip the rest. You live in a lovely area and have some great rifle ranges to enjoy. You live in a great place. Enjoy it and stop worrying about things you cannot control. Remember John 14:1-6. God Bless

RogerDat
11-06-2017, 04:19 PM
You do what you've a mind to. As long as you can enjoy the activity safely and legally no reason to stop unless you decide it isn't something you want to keep doing. It's your life do what makes you happy as long as it isn't hurting anyone else. Doesn't matter what others that share the hobby do. Not all hunters are ethical, not all shooters are safety first oriented. These sports need gentleman and ladies who can provide the examples of classy and righteous behavior. If nothing else to show folks that the mall ninja, Rambo wannabes and sign shooting hunters who can't read no trespassing notices are the exception and not the rule.

You stick around we can use the help. And like I told my dad when he was in his 80's "go ahead and have the bacon for breakfast if you want to, it isn't like your gonna die young from it"

Duckiller
11-06-2017, 05:12 PM
Opos I am 5 years behind you. Haven't been Albacore fishing in probably 30 years. Inshore waters too bad for bonito. Trout fishing in the sierras is a little too much for me. I do have gunsand I understand your problem. I probably have too many guns but I do have three children that will shoot many of them after I am gone. My problem is the casting and reloading equipment. Children know how to do it but I am not sure they will. Handguns are standard calibers so no probblem. Rifles and 16 ga shotgun may be a problem. 257 AI, 30 Rem, 32 WS, 348 Win are calibers that may require reloading to shoot in the future. Understand your desire not to move. #1 son moved to Portland ,Ore and thinks he may stay in the area. #2 son and daughter are local. # 2 would like to the Portland area . #1 and #2 have encouraged my wife and I to move to the central valley of Ore. and we may do it. Daughter would probably come with us. Sooner or later I am going to have to decide if I want to get rid of toys or let children take care of everything. Like you I am probably never going to get a concealed carry permit in Calif. Not to worried abouturban areas, since I don't go into areas that I worry about however there are BIG KITTIES in our lcal National forest where I would like to go fiahing. Had a Deputy Sheriff in Tatical gear tell me I didn't need a permit since the cat was going to sneak up on me and kill me when it attacks. That id ok because then I become the sheriff's problem. My concern is the cat that attacks and doesn't kill me in the first rush. A 4 weight, 6 foot flyrod isn't a good defensive weapon. State law lets us carry while fishing . Need to talk to sheriff station to see how I carry without them putting me face down on the ground. My prpblem. Yor problem , what to do with toys. I would have a or several talks with those family and or friends that might be interested in using them after you are gone. If family and friends aren't interested in your hobbies You may want to dispose of toys. Do it now when you can determine where they go. As you know we have wild and wonderful anti gun laws going into effect in Cal and if Gavin Newsome becomes our next Governor we will probably see many more. You may want to take a hard long look at your firearms and sell off those that you don't want to shoot again. Our heirs may have a problem selling gun in the future. Understand you problem but hope you have many years to think about it.

opos
11-06-2017, 07:46 PM
What a positive and nice day on the "board".....I've had some great and very uplifting comments both on the thread and by p/m...

I'm usually a pretty positive guy and realize how lucky I've been and that I am for a long and really interesting life...Sometimes in conversations with my friends and family someone says "tell us about the ........" fun to know that they enjoy hearing about my life....I was fortunate enough to travel (sometimes I wondered about how fortunate it was) for my entire business life....got to see many things and do many things...I had some major bumps along the way but with the fortunes of a higher power I've been able to have a tight knit family in my life and been an asset to the world rather than a liability which could have been the case.

Thanks to all my friends, new and old for the fun thread today..guns are sleeping peacefully in the safe tonight and I'll be watching Johnny Carson reruns at 7.

Opos
Bob

richhodg66
11-06-2017, 07:57 PM
Unless you need to sell off the guns and stuff, just take a break from it and come back to it if you want to. Nothing wrong with that. I sat on a tree stand from well before the sun came up til well after it went down Saturday and didn't shoot one. Much as I love doing it, I needed a break from it and took it easy Saturday, watche a movie, took the wife to breakfast, went to a gun show, shot a little and squirrel hunted a little with oldest son. I needed that down time from something I have a passion for. Maybe you just need a break.

MUSTANG
11-06-2017, 10:19 PM
If movies are an escape for you...try some old Westerns, black and white. I have a collection of them and when I feel overwhelmed I watch those and stay away from the computer, don't have regular TV so that's not an issue anymore.

In the old Westerns the good folk are always being taken advantage of but in the end evil is triumphed over by good!
That always reinforces my basic belief in humanity even though lately it's been running pretty thin!


Interesting. Over the last month or so the wife and I have been DVR'ing the old Gunsmoke, Bonanza, Wells Fargo, etc.. 1950's/1960's westerns. Interesting to watch simple "Good/Wholesome/Simple Plot TV Watching.

runfiverun
11-06-2017, 10:55 PM
your problem is where you live.

I have none of those laws. [never even heard of the single shot thing]
I don't have to walk down to change targets [public range] I drive if I want, others drive if they want.
we are patient here, we will wait.

guns and ammo are just a thing around here, you just assume everyone has one, even the kids.

OS OK
11-06-2017, 11:10 PM
Interesting. Over the last month or so the wife and I have been DVR'ing the old Gunsmoke, Bonanza, Wells Fargo, etc.. 1950's/1960's westerns. Interesting to watch simple "Good/Wholesome/Simple Plot TV Watching.

It used to be that the old western movies actually taught morality, honesty, good sportsmanship, turn the other cheek and so on...anymore it's just violence, sex, drugs and rap!

MT Gianni
11-07-2017, 01:06 AM
We will all reach the point sometime that we are too old or feeble to shoot. I hope we can all make the decision respectfully with out any gvt intervention or political involvement.

opos
11-07-2017, 09:02 AM
your problem is where you live.

I have none of those laws. [never even heard of the single shot thing]
I don't have to walk down to change targets [public range] I drive if I want, others drive if they want.
we are patient here, we will wait.

guns and ammo are just a thing around here, you just assume everyone has one, even the kids.

I know your area to some degree...years ago in Business I spent some time in Pocatello and it's great country...If I were physically able to live at that elevation (ove 5000') I'd be back in Colorado (not Denver or Boulder) where you get all the good living of the Mountains and the larger cities within a reasonable distance...but with only one lung...asthma..and worst of all "end stage" COPD I am pretty well resigned to 1000 feet max altitude for any length of time...I seldom go to our local mountains which are just 3000' or so....Besides...I can't catch marlin or tuna in Idaho (great trout fishing though).

The unfortunate truth is that certainly right now you have all the benefits you speak of...when I lived in Denver and Fort Collins in the 40's and 50's it was a big Conservative cow town and all the "freedoms" we want and have lived for were just a daily way of life...then the liberal movement took place in the 60's and 70's and the Eastern Slope of the Rockies is "Little San Francisco"....and that will someday hit all the smaller communities...look at Oregon and Washington as well as Colorado...if it's pretty and unspoiled..someone will "discover it" and the spoilers will move in.

Finster101
11-07-2017, 09:07 AM
"...if it's pretty and unspoiled..someone will "discover it" and the spoilers will move in."


That my friend is a powerful, well said and sadly true statement.

largom
11-07-2017, 09:42 AM
"...if it's pretty and unspoiled..someone will "discover it" and the spoilers will move in."


That my friend is a powerful, well said and sadly true statement.

How well the American Indians know the truth of that statement.

OS OK
11-07-2017, 09:54 AM
There's just too many people raised with the 'credo' of..."Hurray for me and screw you, I'm first!"

People don't have any idea of how to live and 'let live'. You need to conform to their standards cuz after all that's how their peers do it.

The concept of minding your own business is foreign to them.

Awe heck...that's enough bout that...I don't want to get off on the wrong foot this morning! Where's my Joe? But...it is the reason that I left SoCal and moved to the snow line in NoCal in the Sierras.

largom
11-07-2017, 10:06 AM
Not quite 80 yet but still in the same boat. I live out in the country in Tenn., Have enough land to have my own shooting range and a place to hunt. But like you it's getting hard to do with age related health issues. Thought about what would happen to all of my goodies when I crossed over, no one to leave them to. Have started thinning out the walk-in gun safe, selling some of the casting/loading equip. here and on eBay also some of my gunsmithing tools. I will keep a couple of my favorite guns and the means to handload for them, everything else will go.
I still repair guns for people at NO CHARGE just because I enjoy messing with guns. Can't do all of the things I use'd to do but I still find plenty to keep me busy.
You may need to back off on some things but do not totally quit. You will find there is still a lot of good living to do.
You paddle on your side of the boat and I will paddle on mine, we will still get away's down the river.

Larry

dverna
11-07-2017, 10:58 AM
This is a "target rich environment". By that I mean many of us are facing what you face or realize the time is not far off. It really is a personal decision. There is no wrong or right answer we can give you but at least we can share our opinions with you.

I am not sure I will ever give up the shooting/reloading aspects completely. In part, because I believe in being able to protect myself and my family if the need ever arises. And to be competent at it, I need to shoot.

Like you I detested the AR for a long time but now have four of them. They have there place if/when the SHTF. I prefer an accurate bolt action for punching holes and enjoy not having to chase brass...but different tools for different jobs. I sold my K38 and GP100 a few years ago and regret doing that. I really miss that K38. I sold off another 20 or so guns and do not regret shedding any of them. So If you decide to sell some off, put them away for a couple of years and see if your mind changes. They do not need to be fed, and they do not poop. Unless you need the money or space, keep them a while.

BTW, you could live another 20 years so bear that in mind in whatever choice you make.

opos
11-07-2017, 11:36 AM
This is a "target rich environment". By that I mean many of us are facing what you face or realize the time is not far off. It really is a personal decision. There is no wrong or right answer we can give you but at least we can share our opinions with you.

I am not sure I will ever give up the shooting/reloading aspects completely. In part, because I believe in being able to protect myself and my family if the need ever arises. And to be competent at it, I need to shoot.

Like you I detested the AR for a long time but now have four of them. They have there place if/when the SHTF. I prefer an accurate bolt action for punching holes and enjoy not having to chase brass...but different tools for different jobs. I sold my K38 and GP100 a few years ago and regret doing that. I really miss that K38. I sold off another 20 or so guns and do not regret shedding any of them. So If you decide to sell some off, put them away for a couple of years and see if your mind changes. They do not need to be fed, and they do not poop. Unless you need the money or space, keep them a while.

BTW, you could live another 20 years so bear that in mind in whatever choice you make.

My Mother lived to be 97 and God love her she still had an "eye" for the men...almost embarassing sometimes when we'd go to one of the burger places (she loved Burger King) and she'd sit and stare at the men and have a few comments that were loud enough to be heard...she got some really funny looks....

mold maker
11-07-2017, 04:09 PM
OPOS you have contributed and still have insight that is valuable here and in life. Don't let the spoilers ruin what you have left.
You have bucked the system for 80 years and won. Don't let the system claim another victim.

Reverend Al
11-07-2017, 05:20 PM
I have an old friend (he's 84 and I'm 64) who has been a shooter and a hunter all of his life, but due to a stroke a few years ago and some ongoing heart issues he no longer drives which limits what he can do and where he can go easily. He's still kept his love of guns and shooting so we get together several times per year and I drive him up to our local club where we do some casual target shooting / plinking on our 25 yard pistol range. He generally "runs out of steam" in a couple of hours, but he thoroughly enjoys the outings and we usually stop off somewhere on the way back home for a bite of lunch. Maybe you could find someone a bit younger than you that lives in your area who would be willing to do the same for you? Shooting is always fun, but shooting with a friend is always more fun and it would give you an opportunity to continue enjoying the shooting sports in your later years. Just a thought ...

opos
11-07-2017, 06:03 PM
I have an old friend (he's 84 and I'm 64) who has been a shooter and a hunter all of his life, but due to a stroke a few years ago and some ongoing heart issues he no longer drives which limits what he can do and where he can go easily. He's still kept his love of guns and shooting so we get together several times per year and I drive him up to our local club where we do some casual target shooting / plinking on our 25 yard pistol range. He generally "runs out of steam" in a couple of hours, but he thoroughly enjoys the outings and we usually stop off somewhere on the way back home for a bite of lunch. Maybe you could find someone a bit younger than you that lives in your area who would be willing to do the same for you? Shooting is always fun, but shooting with a friend is always more fun and it would give you an opportunity to continue enjoying the shooting sports in your later years. Just a thought ...

Appreciate the thought...I'm still able to make it around if I do it right...I have a little steel outfit (like a luggage carrier) on wheels..I've put a plastic milk crate on it with shock cords and added a couple of fishing rod holder clamps up on the handle...I can set rifle butts along with the odds and ends and ammo and a handgun or 2 in the crate and the barrels of the rifles fit in the rod holder clamps...works pretty good....when I go and don't take the cart but just take a couple of hand guns I can drag them along in my range bag and it's fine...we have a woman (40) that helps my wife with house work and shopping and she likes to shoot....she's my "bearer" on occasion and I pay her range fee and furnish ammo and she carries he stuff I can't....we ge along...I get tired...the COPD raises ned from the smoke..along with my asthma and the fact I only have one lung...if there is a crowd I'm no good at all...the air is decent with small crowds and I do wear a mask on occasion...get some funny looks but I just wrote COPD across the mask and folks just ignore it now.

Have the perfect set up with a friend in the foothills...except his place is very prone to fires and he doesn't shoot unless things are pretty damp which is not often lately...he's got his own "range" on his little farm and it's a good place to shoot...I gave him a couple of Mosins a few years ago for he and his family to shoot and also for folks when they come to visit..but the steel cased projectile can make sparks if it hits rocks so can be an issue..

I found one thing when I used to own a marlin fishing boat...guys always wanted to go and I was usually more than willing ...but they were younger and working and I only fished on "week days"...times would come they would schedule a day off...we'd meet..the water wouold be too rough and we didn't go....they ended up wasting a day...kind of the same thing with shooting..the ranges are a zoo on wekends and weekdays are somethihing they have to schedule and take off...can be an issue.

We'll make it

blackthorn
11-07-2017, 07:57 PM
Opos---In a year and two months I will be 80. I find myself in somewhat the same position as you except I am quite healthy and have no mobility issues. My problem is that I have outlived all of my hunting partners and I would have a real tough time packing a quarter or sixth of a Moose out of the bush. I do have two sons but one is not in the best of shape health-wise and the other works too much. They are 55 and 57 and do not have the love of hunting that I have. My oldest boy would likely take time off from his working but I do not feel comfortable asking him to do that. We have to get a draw for a Moose tag and the odds are not that good. There are "open" seasons but the only way they are worthwhile is if you can combine them with a draw. This fall is only the second season I have not seriously hunted since I was 12, although the last four or five years have been mostly driving around hoping for a close-to-the-road shot. I only went out one day this year so far and that was for Deer. Did not see any bucks. I can still go to the range and shoot the casts I make and reload or shoot my handguns. It is fun and I may try to do more in future. Backing off or leaving this hobby is not an option for me but each of us must decide our own destiny commensurate with our needs. Whatever you decide know that if you leave here, you will be missed. Good luck whatever you do.

RogerDat
11-07-2017, 07:59 PM
Interesting. Over the last month or so the wife and I have been DVR'ing the old Gunsmoke, Bonanza, Wells Fargo, etc.. 1950's/1960's westerns. Interesting to watch simple "Good/Wholesome/Simple Plot TV Watching. If you get a chance to watch the two seasons of "the guns of Will Sonnet" with Walter Brennan it is excellent TV both for the morals promoted and the stars that do guest appearances. Some real greats worked on that show. Nearly every episode had at least some elements of right and wrong in opposition.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nK-c6AMHn9A

pjames32
11-07-2017, 10:37 PM
Thanks for your rant sir. I'm 10 years behind you and moved to New Mexico from Illinois 42 years ago. We have many of the same experiences in our past including the street racing. I'm fortunate to live in a fairly conservative (for New Mexico) area and most folks own guns and many carry concealed. I feel safe. I do have a private range available at a reasonable fee and go to the range 1-3 times per week, usually mid week mornings and have a pistol range to myself. I continue to cast, load and shoot as my favorite past time and hope my recent cataract surgery (one done, 1 to go) allows me to shoot a bit better. My recoil tolerance has reduced so I'm shooting my 9mm-40 S&W more with less 45ACP and 10mm. I hope I can continue but realize this too will come to a close when I decide I'm safer without a CCW on my belt or in my pocket. My wife has also become a shooter and comes to the range with me at least once a month. Good luck on your decision and I know you will make good choices.

Der Gebirgsjager
11-08-2017, 08:58 AM
You'll know what to do when the time comes to do something, and sometimes the thing to do is nothing at all.